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• The Best Day… posted (1 day, 15 hours) ago
  When you soar with the eagles, you tend to have their vision too! ~ The best day! ~…

• From my Family to yours :) posted (2 days) ago
  http://www.greenmancoaching.com/HappyFourth.html Bright blessings ~ Richard…

• Just a little trivia… posted (2 days, 2 hours) ago
  In Mexico you can buy tequila with a worm in it. They’ve done ‘em one better in Laos -…

• Think BIG posted (2 days, 16 hours) ago
  When you soar with the eagles, you tend to have their vision too! ~ Think BIG~ …

• What color is the sky in your world? posted (3 days, 18 hours) ago
  When you soar with the eagles, you tend to have their vision too! ~ “What co…

• Me First! posted (4 days, 16 hours) ago
  When you soar with the eagles, you tend to have their vision too! ~ “Me Firs…

• Thought of the day posted (5 days, 17 hours) ago
  When you soar with the eagles, you tend to have their vision too! ~ “I don…

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Richard cor de lyon's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (7 votes) CLOSED
  

  I think it was Mark Twain that said, “… the easiest way to be happy is to try to make someone else happy”. Well… it goes along the same lines… the easies way to learn is to teach… the easiest way to get is to give… the easiest way to be loved is to love.
  
  There ya go :)
  Bright blessings~
  Richard
  
  - written 7 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by LazyDaze~, -fourthings-, SARAH!, SquidgyBeata, Grego, xbox, Jade

• (6 votes) i need help.
  

  I’ll start with a little story… a priest was walking down a country road one day. He found himself feeling dismayed and disappointed as he passed by farm after farm that looked to be falling apart… the field growing high with weeds, the fences in disrepair, the farm houses looking like they were abandoned… then, as he kept walking he came across a farm that looked fantastic. The fences were all repaired and with a fresh coat of whitewash, the fields were all neatly trimed and plowed, the farm house looked like a classic victorian with brightly painted ‘gingerbread trim’…. as he walked he came across the farmer who was sitting on his tracker, but at the moment was taking a break drinking some lemonade. The priest called out to the farmer, and said, “The lord has truly blessed you with a beautiful farm my friend”. The farmer looked down at the priest from his tractor, and said, “yes father, the good Lord in heaven has been good to me, and has given me many blessings… But you should have seen this dam* place before I CAME ALONG!”
  
  The moral of the story… yes, We can look to God to fix our problems… but God only supplies the raw data, or gross materials… the rest is up to us! So, yes… the Universe, God, The Source; whatever you want to call the higher power, will send you what you ask for, but you need to be focused and you need to be prepared to 1) act quickly when it is sent, and 2) be willing to work with what is sent a little bit.
  
  So, What is your dream. If you want an extraordinary life, you need to have a dream, or a vision of what you want to be… where you want to go. Something that will inspire you… to PULL you forward. YOUR LIFE HAS NOT BEEN A MISTAKE. Everything in your life has brought you to RIGHT HERE. And this is where you are supposed to be RIGHT NOW. Right now is all you have… dwell in the past, it is the past you will keep reliving. Dwell in the future, and you will live in a dream. Dream your dream, and LIVE in right now, making the choices to make your dream come true.
  Bright blessings~
  Richard
  
  - written 11 months, 1 week ago – voted for by crossroads36, Mitzalicious®™, Richard cor de lyon, rookandpawn, Ezray, t.john1, arls

• (4 votes) am a hypocrite :’( I NEED A SOLUTION PLEASE!
  

  I’m sorry… I’m an old man… I don’t know what the h#ll you just said.
  
  - written 1 month ago – voted for by bdougl, kim., tictactomm, PersonalPandaParty

• (2 votes) I’m moving in with my mom’s boyfriend and i dont want to!
  

  I understand your unhappiness in moving. There is so much to live for, you even said so yourself. Of course if your mother hears that you feel like killing yourself she is going to cry… she does not want to loose you, she loves you very much.
  
  I’m curious exactly how much of your mothers situation you understand. It seems that your father is out of the picture. Do you really understand what it is like to raise a child in this day and economy. This recession we are living through right now is so very close to a depression it’s not funny… An economy so bad that people are simply abandoning their homes and moving away. Thousands upon thousands out of work, and unable to gain employment. Prices of everything on the rise… impossible to fill a gastank because it’s not in the budget.
  
  Your mother believes she has found love, and she now has the ability to make her life AND YOUR life easier, by joining forces with someone she loves. Have you considered for one moment that she is doing this in part FOR YOU?
  
  - written 3 weeks, 2 days ago – voted for by slimline2, florie

• (2 votes) You are what you think…
  

  thank you for your reply LivingDeadDoll. I certainly agree with what you have to say about our youth. Childhood development is a very tricky thing and it certainly does have an impact on our adult life. I do respectfully disagree with your choice of words later though; “a person cannot stop the thoughts of what people think of them influencing what they think of themselves”. True, while we cannot change what others might think of us, we certainly do NOT have to be influenced by THEIR thoughts. One of Eleanor Roosevelt’s famous quotes is; “No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.” I firmly believe this.
  
  - written 4 weeks, 1 day ago – voted for by annlovestars

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• I feel terrible,i need someone, anyone..
  

  When we loose someone, whether that be from a break-up or in death, we must go through a grief process to heal. That process is a five stage process. You will feel one if not all of these before you can accept and feel better:
  Denial - “This just is not happening to me, She’ll come begging to have me back”
  Bargaining - “Please God, I’ll do anything to have her back… I’ll CHANGE”
  Anger - “Screw her, she deserves the worst in life”.
  Depression - “I’m just so sad, I feel so lonely; I don’t ever want to love again”
  Acceptance - “I accept that she is gone, I will learn my lessons and move one from here”
  
  Once some doors are closed, and you have TRUE acceptance, you will begin to heal so you can love again.
  - written 58 minutes ago

• I feel terrible,i need someone, anyone..
  

  you have come no where near acceptance yet. But I believe you when you say that you will.
  Bright blessings ~ Richard
  - written 1 hour, 8 minutes ago

• hey
  

  why are you thinking about endings, when it’s barely even begun? If you do not love for fear of being hurt, you will never love again. Stop worrying about what tomorrow will bring… you can dream about that, because that is all tomorrow is… a dream. “Laugh like there is no one listening, Dance like there is no one watching, and Love like you’ve never been hurt, and LIVE like there is no tomorrow.”
  
  Bright blessings ~ Richard
  - written 1 hour, 16 minutes ago

• what does it mean to be called “socially adorable” ?
  

  I guess it means you are the life of the party, but is it a ‘double edged sword’? What is the context? To some who are versed in passive aggressive comments, those that have social skills may be implying a lacking in personal, intimate skills. In other words you can be the life of the party but when you are all alone, you are a drag. NOW, I’m NOT saying that is what is meant here, I need a little more context. It probably just means you are the life of the party :)
  - written 1 hour, 22 minutes ago

• Thoughts of hope?
  

  Those that do not go within, will go without.
  
  Bright blessings ~ Richard
  - written 1 hour, 29 minutes ago

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