Richard Cor de Lyon's reply history at Help.com

Right you are Xeno… actually we are all One… definitely not all equal. St. Paul wrote about this in Corinthians… a very good piece. But in terms of some having more than you… that will ALWAYS be the case…. just like YOU will ALWAYS have more than someone else.
Bright blessings ~R

Welcome … we’ve been expecting you :)
Bright blessings ~ R

Family is a wonderful thing. It’s great to have understanding parents and siblings. When everyone can get together for birthdays and holidays, and everything is smooth-sailing. The real deal is not always like that. Families can be a royal pain in the A$$. Parents can be the cause of sooooo many scars. As Richard Bach writes in Illusions; ” … sometimes members of the same family do not grow up under the same roof…” meaning sometimes the closest people to you, your true family are NOT your parents and or sibling. The bottom line to my post is you don’t have to give them all the power and control. I don’t want to sound unsympathetic… but ultimately nobody controls you, but YOU. When my brother told me that I was killing my parents… I didn’t cower in the shadows and and let his opinion rule my life. I told him, “bite me, you walk in my shoes for only a few weeks, and then tell me your opinions”. Anon… with all due respect, you are the master of your own universe. And I know you can make that univere the most beautiful thing for you. All those satilites around you, the sun called dad… the moon called mom… the other planets called brother, sister, aunt and uncle… they are in your universe yes… until you turn them into super nova’s, but in truth, they have very little impact on you. I wish you the best of luck and bright blessings. ~R

Well… as I say, I have come to trust women intuition…mostly because I don’t have it and am jealous :))… so, I’m gonna leave this up to the women here. But in parting I would say… you’ve seen the signs before, and apparently are seeing some of them again. You have a gut feeling, but then minimize it as being paranoid (a classic example of hanging on). You are in a position to be able to move on. I would talk openly to him…and if he can not commit to you, or share openly with you.. then I’d find a better man, for sure.
I wish you love and luck,
Bright blessings ~R

One thing I learned about women (are you one?) is that they are INCREDABLY intuitive! I would say trust YOUR instincts, they are probably right! What do you do about it? That depends on so many factors that you have not mentioned… are you married… do you have children (that’s a big one)… how old are you? is your partner finding out they are gay? (it happens)… are they cheating on you?… and any number of other questions.
Bright blessings ~ R

IDK~

I got mine from http://www.fafsaonline.com/

Basically the Stafford Loan DO was talking about.

BB~R

IDK… as I wrote to Holly, I mean you no harm. I ultimately wish the best for you. I said it once, and I’ll say it again… YES your parents have issues (big issues). All I was meaning is that I didn’t want to see you getting sucked into their issues. I know some of what I said was harsh, but it was meant with the best intentions… ohhhh I know, “the streets to hell are paved with best intentions”… ok. But is seems like you heard some of it… I like very much what you wrote, (but only in this last post), “I just look back and wish I did some things different. In other words, not be so nice and move out when I had the chance.” and “But getting free” Your previous posts were not this positive sounding! They were all about how someone else was controling your life, like you were some kind of puppet. Again, I apologize for my “tough love” but sometimes I feel it is called for. I do, sincerely, wish you the best of luck on your adult journey… with your publishing, etc… and most of all with ~getting free~
Bright blessings ~ R

“Those activities, by the way, can also be mentioned in a job interview….. “So, what have you been doing lately?” “Well, I volunteer my time a couple of days a week to help the homeless….” or “I go to the senior center and help out.” This diffuses the idea that your interviewer may think you are out of work because their is something wrong with YOU.”

WOW… Starbuddy.. some GREAT advise!!! and an EXCELLENT perspective!!! I especially liked the above. Thank you :)) Oh… and cutting loose is a good one too :)

Bright blessings all.

I’m sorry if my following the rules here offends you, but then that is on you, and I have no control over you. This very old post is the only live post regarding my book. Any other “advertisement” has been a reply and ONLY to those that are appropriate, and I feel could benefit from my experiences and the book. My book is very relevent to this site, and many people that come here. Quite frankly, I don’t see why you don’t advertise your business if it’s relevant to the site. Are you a therapist?? a Life Coach? There should be more of those on here that are willing to advertise a little.

What I find rude… is someone posting a reply to a old post that smacks of against the rules itself based on what I’ve read in the FAQ’s regarding what NOT to say; “we only ask that the advice at least be given with the intention of genuinely trying to help others. ” and “Harassing other community members.”
I find your original reply to this post both harassing and detrimental in terms of ‘helping’ me. If you wanted to help me, you’d recommend my book to those that have found themselves lost, due to misfortune or depression.

I thank you for your perspective… and your personal opinion, but at this time I choose to ignore it.
Respectfully yours ~ Richard Hills

And if it escaped your notice… there are dozens of people begging for money on this site. I at least offer a product for sale. (and not the only one doing so here)

I’m not spamming anyone.

why… it is clearly within the bounds of the rules here.

you mean your spam program is snatching the email from the seller? If that’s all, just add the sellars email address to your contact list (that’s all I have to do to get emails from that sort of thing). Perhaps you can use AOL or Yahoo IM to get a message that contains the email address to add to your contact list.

I vote with Breathe. No matter what the mother of this child is doing now… if she finds out another woman is involved in her child’s life, her attitude may very well turn into the protective lionese! It wouldn’t be the first time something like that happens… and if it does, your life will become hell. I understand your biological clock… I hear it ticking from here, but you have time dear. I say… yes… go have fun, fall AND get hurt! Pain is only a measurement of our JOY! You’re a beautiful woman, and there are a lot of guys that are going to want to be part of your life.
Bright Blessings ~ R

greetings Helmut… I am Prabhu Karunakaran, the pleasure is extremely mine to meet you. Greeting Dr Shahid.