Richard Cor de Lyon's reply history at Help.com

It seems to me that without a contract this will be more difficult of course, I’m not a lawyer so maybe even impossible. What I would try doing is getting a written affidavit from everyone or maybe a petition that everyone could sign as a witness to your friend taking the pictures. Then I’d take your friend to small claims court. If you paid him sue for your money back, or the value of the pictures (if you can sue for that I don’t know). Have you looked on the internet for your pictures?

what happened to your “friendship”?

I believe there is a circle of like-minded people for pretty much any group. What is it you like? What is it you are interested in?

[quote Anonymous]Thank you all though for the advice. I will take from it and just take a deep breath, one day at a time, and survive. I really appreciate the help and support.[/quote]

well said, and very true. You’ll get through it, it’s very hard and sometimes even hard to get back up, there will always be something worth it… trust me. And what’s really cool; your daughter may not really understand everything now, but trust me, eventually she will. It can be hard waiting for that day, but when it comes… it’s worth it. Don’t talk bad about your ex to your daughter… she’ll learn all that on her own… and she really needs to unfortunately.

[quote Anonymous]Courtybubble: You really should STOP TREATING PEOPLE POORLY in these posts! They are simply trying to give GOOD QUALITY ADVICE. Again, you really should follow your OWN advice.

For the others who are actually trying to give INFORMATIVE CARING ADVICE, feel free to read the little argument between me and courty this evening. If it wasn’t for their blatant and disrespectful comments, I probably wouldn’t call them out on the fact that they are WRONG a good portion of the time. So take their advice with what you choose… my choice? A grain of salt. Feel free to pass on when you want to call them out on their BS. Some people here CARE and BELIEVE the advice they receive. It sucks to get not only poor and wrong advice, but to get SASS and DISRESPECTED in addition.

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This sounds like shout material… not reply material. Besides, as far as I can read, Courty was giving sound advice. If you have something to say to the poster stay it… if you have something to say to Courty, shout it to her. To the poster please forgive this little rant.

As far as your issue, all I can do is sympathize. I was nearly forced to do the same thing. Only difference was my ex was terrified of the psych eval, and caved at the mention of it. I personally liked Courtys advice and support that perspective. On top of all that Document. Document everything. And when you think you are done with your documentation… document some more. Anything you get in writing… save it. Make no verbal deals… all deals must be in writing, even an email is better than nothing.

read the tags girls… can you say, “playa”?

My daughter based her ‘theme’ on the ball in the movie Labyrinth.

wunnerful, wunnerful… we are all connected, and NOT just by the www :)

lol… much better :)

“I am thy God Almighty Intel, and Bill Gates is my one and only prophet; there shall be no other”

“I am thy Lord God Intel, thou shalt not have false microprocessors before me”

Tenet - any opinion, principle, doctrine, dogma, etc., esp. one held as true by members of a profession, group, or movement.

All religions have rules. If you don’t stand for something, then you’ll fall for anything. What is the doctrine of the Great and Almighty Intel?

what are the tenets to your religion?

well said :)

Do you want to be able to dive into the water and overcome this fear?