Thank you so much, I will e mail you soon as I get a minute, it’s kind of long and my head is a bit of a mess. I’m in Oz at the moment!1 Can you believe that, I can’t
Thank you very much Victoria. I’m back, but perhaps not as much as I used to be (thereby the delay in my response to you). I am however honored that you’d seek my advice and I’ll happily correspond with you :) If you’d like you may email too… richhills1 @ sbcglobal .net :)
I’m a bit concerned that you closed all your posts, are you leaving? Are you Ok? Or just having a New YEar clear out?
One of the posts was an oooooold one my answers were a mess I was a wreak I don’t recongnise that person now! So strange, without you and Help.com would I still be that mess?
Hope you are Ok ((((big hugs)))
Hi Richard, it was my Grandmother not my Grandfather, we were close I was one of the only Grandchildren that visited her regularly as the others all live all over the place, I know she is safe now but yes I miss her a great deal, I guess it’s easier when you are expecting it, I cried a lot when she first became ill, she didn’t know who I was anymore
how old was he? The holidays can be so stressful just by themselves sometimes. We really don’t need extra stress, but sometimes we are given things we don’t always know we need until much later. Were you really close to him? When my grandma died, I didn’t really cry that much (I was maybe 16) and at the time I didn’t really feel that close to her I guess. But I was closer to her than I thought because I miss her constantly the older I get. It’s curious. God picks only his finest roses from the Garden Cakes… he’s in good hands, the Best. Love ~ Rich
Thank you so much. It’s so touching that you care. It’s all so strange we carried on with Christmas as normal, my dad still wanted me to go to my boyfriends and carry on with my plans so I put a brave face on and went I have hardly had a chance to cry and so now I feel so emotional about everything , it was 8.30 Christmas morning
Thank you Richard
Oh yes… younger than I thought :) Must be an old soul :)
It only takes the light from one candle to chase darkness away. Thank you for being that light in my life.
Bright blessings and Merry Christmas ~ Richard
OK… WOW. I see this new Avatar online and I find out it’s Cakes’! At the risk of embarrassing myself, what a beautiful woman (OMG, I hope it’s not your daughter. Still beautiful, but I don’t want to sound like some sort of freak) :)
ahhh yes… while the name has changed I luckily remember the avatar :) I’m doing OK and getting better every day. This last relationship issue was very difficult for me, but I’m getting through it pretty good. And will be back to 100% by the end of the year :)
Bright blessings ~ Richard
Hey Rich, hope you are Ok and still healing well,I just wanted to say Hi as I used to be nixevan and you helped me a lot when I was going through an increadiblytough time. Thank you. Hope to speak again soon
ahhhh yes… Question number 8. That gets sooooo many people (myself included). It is almost the way of things now a days. The right questions (and of course the right answers) can sometimes help direct you on your path….
Hey thanks, great advice just what I needed, I knew you make sense I just need that push of corage, we are short staffed at the moment and it’s a pretty new team and I have just been trained on everything. it’s kinda big headed of me to think they can’t cope without me I guess
Hey Richard, I still have your book that you e mail me, I have started to read it but just don’t seem to have any time at the moment!
I need some words of wisdom and I never have been good at starting up posts. sout me if you get a moment. I want to leave the job I worked so hard gor lol
ohhh wow…I’m happy to hear you are better. Not sure my book covers what you need. I’d me more than happy to email you an e-copy if you email me at richard(dot)hills(at)wamu(dot)net. There has been soooo much revelation regarding the physical brain… and the doctors have their way. The perspective of my book says that our mind is where it is at…as Buddha teaches us, “the mind is every thing”. It’s from that were I get my trademark logo…”Changing your life is as easy as changing your mind”. I do talk about habits in the book… and how it take 28 days for the brain to create new neural pathways… which in turn create new habits. So while bringing about change may not be instantly consistant… it only takes a month :) So, in getting better, you need to focus on your brain, and heal it. Try a deep relaxation meditation. When totally relaxed start a creative visualization exercise. See your brain in your imagination. See that a part of it is dark… well… not completely dark, but the electrical nerves, that look like sparks, are having trouble getting to the dark part of your brain. So, the light is kinda flashing in that part of your brain… this is what causes the seizures. Imagine that you can clear the pathways for the nerves, and make it easy for them to get to that part and light it up.. so the light stops flickering, and become a bright solid white light. Take your time with this visualization… and actually visualize feeling better… lighter, healthier… open and not constricted… no seizers. As you slowly exit your visualization… meditate on being whole and healthy.
I did this sort of thing after my heart attack. My EKG came back saying, “Normal heart function” My heart after a heart attack, is just as good as before.
Bright blessings~
Richard
Hey long time to see,
How have you been? Things are ookig up, kind of!!! Doc’s still don’t know whats really going on I have a load of brain scans and ECG’s they think I am having some sort of seizure, but I am working again whicj is great new, what can I do to ndo all this mess and make my brain better? Any suggestions from your book ?
Ahhhh the beach is wonderful… and I personally LOVE the forest as well. But the beach is special because it is medicinal in every aspect … the awesomeness of it can heal mental and spiritual, and the fact that it creates negative ions can heal physical as well.
~*~ Richard
I think it’s all balanced at the moment, I’m feeling very peacefull about everything now, I spent a week on the beach, I just love being outside on beaches in woodlands anywhere like that. I do want to read your book and I will get around to it as soojn as I have found a job and finished my charity work which is set to be all over by August
good to hear from you. When it comes to physical illness, it is the HARDEST thing to take ownership of. Especially if it’s genitic etc. And hey… I could be WRONG :)) it wouldn’t be the first time! The important thing is you are feeling better in all ways… physical and mental (emotional)… hows the spirit side doing? We don’t want to forge that part… remember, body, mind spirit… it’s all gotta balance out :)
Not to worry about the book. Read it if you want… whenever. If you do read it however, I am very interested to know what you think.
Bright blessings ~ Richard
Hey how have you been? I never got round to rerading your book and I still have no job but I have to say I am in quite good spirits about things my health is almost back to normal I hace feeling back on my left side. I still don’t think I brought this on myself tho!! hehe
Hey you make some sense I guess. What I have is genetic. My mum had a brain hemorrage and so sis my aunt. If I have children there is a 50% chance they will get it also. Befor my hemmorage I was working in a stressfull advertising job. I guess hat didn’t help keep my blood pressure down. I feel as tho I am being blamed for my parents sins. If you can help me find responsibility for this that would probably but right now I don’t see that anything I done would have causedit. I am very healty and eat sensibly and drink on special occasions and never more than 3 or 4 drinks. Thanks for your kind words
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