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the only way to show change is through time and actually changing no one will believe a change has been made unless it really starts to show over days and weeks

ohh HUG!!! if not.. hug a pet?

talk to her and if that doesnt work, try doing it to her, and she’ll freak out, and then explain to her (try and get really specific examples) that that’s what she’s been doing

yeah you’re right.. thanks

i agree with tinkerbell and also don’t worry about it so much, you can say a lot more to girls than you think

i’ve been there. i’m sorry i can’t be of a lot of help though. i think what helped for me was just maturing, as you get older you learn to appreciate your family. i’m still struggling though, taking my sister for granted. why not really mentally prepare yourself before going home and keep your intentions to be kinder in the front of your mind.

do not let those people effect you! you’re at the age where people want to be exactly the same, and attack anything different, maintain you’re individuality and you will be SO much happier later. don’t throw away happiness and fufilment that you will gain from being and finding yourself because of those jerks. weird is synonomous with individuality in middle school, and individuals create, while everyone else imitates.

okay, you clearly are in love with this guy, and i’m sorry to say it seems as though he isnt in love with you. when you love someone you want to act the way you’re acting, very giving and caring. you need to leave him, and work on yourself cause you deserve a lot better

i think you should encourage your sister-in-law to talk to your brother, calmly and prepared with examples of times when he has spoiled the child, and explain the bad values the child is learning

i agree, take your dad with you, the school has no choice but to be understanding (you can sue)

thats awful.. if you want to be emancipated from your parents you need to get yourself a lawyer

sucks dude.. its hot here too

first of all, i am so deeply sorry for your loss. second, you’re going to have to talk to your sister about it, and if neccessary get your sister outside help. usually that isn’t neccessary but you and your family need to rally together, there’s no easy way to deal with grief, but you get through it by taking things a day at a time

best of luck

i think he’s cheating, and i think you can for sure do better than that, and so can the baby.