try and let him know that you aren’t applying any pressure. and that means yo uhave to follow through with it, no extra affection, no kissing, no telling him you love him. it only makes it harder on him.
i told Hy that i loved him first. i was absolutely terrified, but i knew for sure that i loved him. it was really hard to tell him, but he was nice about it. he told me he couldn’t love me. he didn’t want to do a long-distance relationship and neither
did i. so we stayed friends for a while maybe 2 weeks or so. i had started to give up, and get really sad. i had finally found him and he didn’t want me(story of my life) but i stayed his friend. and now look at us! two big heaps of mushy love!
Believe me, I am trying, but he is pulling away from me, and that hurts WORSE then him not loving me, I can deal with that, it happend last time, but I can’t cope with people pulling away when I know its my fault.
*smiles* What is distance to true love, it will only make you love each other all the more when you meet! *hugs* =)
And its a user on the site, and we stay up talking for ages, and we have a “house” together, and I sing to him, and I comfort him when he is sad, and he is just amazing and remembers little details about me like what calms me down when I am upset, and what my favourite food is, and we just get on so well, and we fall asleep lay on the couch together most nights, or on school nights I steal his bed because we broke mine when we were chasing each other round the house because I pushed him in the river and we started bouncing on it, oh and I always give him a kiss goodnight lol
awwww *hands mal something to wipe her eyes*
You two are soo sweet together =)
Didn’t he buy you in the bachelorette auction? Awwwwww =D
Was that when you got together, or was that just another thing?
*blushes* Thanks =P and I love the fact that you didn’t ask about my crush, though if you have been in my shoutbox, its blatently obvious *giggles*
Oh I know who he is, he told me, and I gave him a little talk ;-) lol,
and its not a biggie, lol the guy I like is a user on the site as well =) though I have a feeling that he feelings aren’t returned. =P
ditance means nothing to those in love.