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Be superior sweetlike-chocolat! Read again everything I wrote you. This is the scientific explanation for what happened. If you won’t forgive, you’ll suffer more.

Hi Roseallnea! I think your dream is a warning, because you may be tempted to make a moral mistake in the future. It can be anything, but usually it means to betray your companion. Be careful because you are attractive and usually men show their interest to women that have babies because they know that they have their husband and the obligation to care about the kid, so they just want to take advantage of those women and play with them for a while. In your first dream you were sure you would find the baby’s tomb stone. It reflects your interest on learning the meaning of this dream because the stone means the truth. You wanted to learn the truth. It shall save you from the problems you would probably have if you didn’t have this warning. I hope everything will be fine with you and your baby. Don’t think the baby’s death in your dream was a prediction or something like that. It was a warning, because your baby represents in your dreams the child that should not exist, because it is the result of a sin. So, you have to interpret the dream according to its symbolic meaning. I hope this interpretation will really help you face any problem you may have in the future in a very mature way.

Never accept to abandon life and those that depend on you because this is cruelty. Don’t make other people feel like you are feeling now, because you’ll kill yourself. Be human!

Did anything different happened in your life recently?

Do you think the interpretation I gave you is correct? Do you feel you are facing some kind of threat?

The blood the baby was crying means pain. It seems that the moral mistake you could make is going to make you suffer.

Be always moralist, never agree to do anything against moral. This way you’ll be protected from craziness. It can only invade your human conscience if you’ll accept immorality in your life.

Dear sweetlike-chocolat, forgive your mother because she didn’t know what she was doing.
I studied many tragedies because I lead with craziness. Your mother was not the person you knew, she was dominated by the wild side of her conscience, which is very violent. This is the archaic conscience we all have inside our psyche. It’s a content our human conscience ignores and it is always trying to provoke craziness to our human conscience in order to take its place and control our behavior. When the invasion of this wild content in the human conscience is complete, the individual becomes cold, a crazy murderer without human feelings. You have to have pity of your mother because she is a wild animal without feelings, without moral, without anything human in her soul. It’s very sad, but it happens all the time. We never know when this wild content will arise and invade our human conscience. It starts suggesting us many things, giving us many crazy ideas in order to “solve our problems”. We cannot understand we start following our wild side’s advices, which are only against us, because this is a trap. If we abandon our moral principles, we open the doors for the monster.
This archaic conscience is still as it was in the beginning of its formation, since it didn’t pass through consciousness and it is always trying to destroy our human conscience. Our human conscience is the conscience we know, and that respects moral rules.
Craziness is a very common disease in our world, because the human being is mainly crazy, since the biggest part of his psychic sphere belongs to the archaic conscience. Our human conscience is a tiny cover for the old violent monster.
It’s very easy to loose our human principles and fall in the trap of the wild monster we have inside us.
Have pity only in your hart!…
Both your mother and your boyfriend lost their human conscience. What happened with them was not love. They are victims of their wild side. They’ll regret very much what they did, but it is already too late. Have pity of them!
What they did to you was murder. They killed you, because this wild content only kills. It has to learn to be human through consciousness. It’s a long process… So, what happened is that you are a victim of terror. This terror didn’t come from the people you knew however, but from their wild side, that only provokes terror. They killed themselves too. They are not going to be happy together… What happened with all of you was only destruction!
If you believe in God and you have some religiosity it would help. Read my articles about depression and suicide. You can also take a copy of my free ebook. Check about it if you think it will help you. Ask me anything you want!
Now you have to show to the world how strong you are. For now on you have to be mature, serious, and very wise! Your work will save many people. You have to do something to help other people, now that you understood how awful it is to be a victim of terror… You are not the only one. Look around you. In which world we live? Terror, violence, immorality, hypocrisy and many more horrible things are part of our daily life on Earth. Think about many people that live under wars, without food, full of blood… Think about people starving, people without medicine… There are so many victims of terror in our world!
Now, with your sad experience you have to be the hero that will save humanity from terror. Of course, you are only a human being, but you are going to do your part. Don’t think that this sad experience happened to you because God abandoned you without pity. Don’t think that your life ended because this sad event happened to you.
It was the beginning of your new road. The new road of your life, through which you’ll do something to help this world become better and people live happily, without mistakes, but with goodness and wisdom in their harts and in their minds. You have a lot to do! This world needs you! Now you are sensitive. You are not like the ignorant people that never saw terror happen in their lives. You know what it is, so you know you have to do something to give an end to this tragedy. There are many things you can do to help many people that suffer in this world! You don’t even need to go far. I’ve being helping many people during many years. People have very sad problems! I’m not supposed to tell you other people’s problems, but I know stories worse than yours. I’m only telling it to you because you said that nobody else can have that kind of story in their lives… You are only one among billions and billions of victims! So, do something about it! Help this world! We need people sensitive that will really do something to help everybody instead of caring only for themselves.

Don’t worry Roseallnea, even though a baby in your dream means a serious moral mistake. The dead baby was not exactly a childish part of your personality as I told you yesterday because I considered it as part of your psyche, but a moral mistake you would make. This baby is a baby that has only a bad meaning, the baby that should not exist (because the father is probably married with another woman). This is the way we interpret always a baby in our dreams. It is the result of a moral mistake. But since the baby died in your dream, this death means that you don’t need its bad example anymore, you understood which was your mistake. Yesterday I interpreted the dream considering the dead child as you when you were younger, but today I can see the child was your own baby, what has another symbolic meaning; it is a sin. So, even though it’s horrible to see your own baby dead, this death means comprehension. You are not going to make the mistake you would make if the baby was alive. On the other hand, the baby could have died because you are making a serious moral mistake, so you don’t need its example to avoid making the mistakes you are already making. It’s too late.
You have to see according to what is happening with you in your life if you don’t need the baby’s example anymore (that’s what means the baby’s death) because: 1) You understood your moral mistake and you are not going to make it or 2) You are already doing something wrong, the bad example cannot make you have another attitude.
I hope you are being correct, but in case you are not, you can correct your attitude now. Perhaps you can’t see in which point you are making this mistake, because this dream may be a warning: You’ll have to face a difficult situation where you’ll have the temptetion to abandon your moral principles and do something wrong. Pay attention to your actions. If you’ll follow the moral principles of goodness, respect and forgiveness towards everyone you’ll be safe!
If you want a more detailed interpretation I need to learn something about your life and make you a few questions. I suggest you’ll start writing down your dreams in a notebook everyday so that you’ll be able to understand the unconscious messages. My interpretation is based in Carl Jung’s method, which I prove with recent discoveries in many scientific fields that is absolutely correct. My ebook continuing Jung’s work is almost ready. I teach everyone how they can easily learn the unconscious messages interpreting their dreams, and this way discover a doctor in the unconscious. My ebook is not ready yet even though I finished writing it, because my English is not so good (I’m Brazilian and Greek), so I need a revision. You can check around next week or the other in my site and see if it is available (The revision will finish on Sunday). I’m also giving free information about dreams in my articles at my site and at the ezine. Or, you can simply send me your questions and we can talk through help.com. It’s nice to have a direct contact this way! You can ask me anything you want.

Take care!

Christina

I’ve studied dream interpretation for more than 20 years, so I can tell you that your dream shall not frighten you, because you are seeing a part of your personality dead, which probably is your infant personality. In our dreams, other people are several parts of our own personality. I don’t know anything about your life, but it seems that something very important happened to you. You are mature now; this experience was basic for your life. The stone you were looking for is the truth about her death, meaning that you were trying to understand why she had to die. She probably represents a childish personality you had. Now you don’t need her example in order to avoid making her mistakes, that’s why she could die. This is usually the meaning that dead people have in our dreams: the bad examples that we shall not imitate.
So, even though this dream seems to be bad, it is in fact giving you a good message. You are mature now, that’s why the immature part of your personality could die.

For you that have a bad problem

Hi! I’m Christina Sponias, and you can read my biography to learn more about me. I would like to help you now; your nervous problem is a very common one. How old are you? If you are a teenager, going through this sort of problem is almost a rule.
We become angry when things are not the way we want them to be, and a teenager suddenly discovers that the world where he/she lives is in fact a horrible place. So, everything becomes horrible, instead of wonderful, which is not the way he/she expected it. When we are children, we dream of a nice world where we will be happy. However, as we grow up, we see that things are completely different from what we expected because people around us only disappoint us with their behaviour.
So, don’t let yourself think that your problem is that bad. You are discovering the truth about life on Earth. This is a very sad experience, but don’t think that we are completely lost. There is also wisdom in the universe, and wisdom can save us if we are humble and try to become wiser.
Now, a nervous problem is also a personal problem. What is going on in your personal life? If you are always irritated and anything can make you become nervous and afraid, this reaction shows that you are very unhappy with something. What is it that makes you so sad?
Whatever it is, remember that nobody here is perfect and you must learn to forgive everyone. Show mercy towards your enemies because they behave the way they do because they are not wise, they are ignorant . Our nervous problems usually begin with our relationships with the people in our surroundings. It is difficult to coexist! Always bear in mind that you have to learn to forgive everybody, because nobody is perfect. Further, it is important to be calm. Show mercy on human stupidity and try to help humanity become wiser, so that we may live happily on Earth, instead of living in eternal suffering as we are living now.
Your anxiety before doing anything and your desire to throw up suggests that for some reason, you are unable to accept the way you are living. Think about everything I told you and see what you need to do to change in your life, so that you may feel better and acquire the courage you need in order to face the problems of your daily life.

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Best regards,

Christina