my girlfriend has been regularly making out with my flat mate, neither of them told me untill today, months since it started. im 19 and we have been together 4 years, she said our relationship had been bad for months, but she was trying not to let it show?! i dont see why not, i kept asking what was up and why she was acting different but she didnt let me help. i dont know what to do. i can never trust her again, the past 6 months has been lies, but i love her with all my heart. This is what your bf doesnt want to experience, and no offense but if i had the choice now id do the same thing 4 years ago…i dont think id be around anymore if my sister wasnt a drug and alcohol abuse specialist… - written 2 years, 6 months ago