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HEHE!…sorry, that will probably be one for the top secret stash

My husband said if i find myself a girlfriend it would be okay as long as he could tape it…LMAO

informative indeed. and i downloaded that song…not what i usually listen to, but not bad. any other songs that you could suggest?

i think that ppl who are hateful toward an entire group of ppl based on silly things like the way they choose to dress or the music they like, etc.. are fools. every group has so much to offer.

so in your personal opinion, it’s just a style of dress? so then why do i keep seeing these stupid posts about hating emo ppl? i thought it was just a style as well. but a girl i know calls herself hardcore something or other and is always talking crap about ppl she calls emo. i was just curious.

well thank you! very precise..LOL ;)

i like weird, but individual ppl..

and i like the story.

go somewhere or do something inspiring. something that provokes lots of emotion. whether good or bad. inspiration comes from the things around you. watch a movie that makes you cry or read a poem that makes you feel SOMETHING. go to a beautiful park or even a crappy part of town (be careful tho..JK!). something that tells a story. that always helps me.

i agree with Queen E! if she’s single GO FOR IT!

if not, why would you want a girl who gets close to other guys when she’s in a relationship anyway?

once again,thank you all. it’s great to be able to talk this out with so many smart people. i really would prefer not speaking to my family about this because i don’t want them to dislike my husband, and being that i’m in japan, i don’t have a lot of close friends here. it’s such a relief to get this off my shoulders and feel comforted. you have all been so helpful and i agree with all of you on one point or another. i am able to pick up something from every response and use it as a guideline to help fix this problem. Thank you so much!

download bittorent or something like it and then hit up http://axxo.superfundo.org/ there are old and very new movies and most are excellent quality.

thank you all for the replies..every different perspective helped to to come to a decision on how i will handle this. i will let him know exactly how i feel about this whole thing and tell him what i need from him. i’ll let him know that i will make sacrifices and loosen up if he gives me a little in return. i just want to feel like me and the kids are his top priority and that he knows he’s a husband and a father before he’s “one of the boys”.

My3sons4ever: OMG, almost a dead ringer. he’ll say something like, “i work hard every single day for you and the kids! i make sure there’s a roof over your head and food on the table. what else do u want!?” LOL..i’ve told him more than once that there’s more to being a family man than making money and not hitting me.

i have been there. more than once. my husband is military. i can’t tell you that it’s not hard, because that would be a lie. it’s very difficult. but, being alone is good for you both. and missing each other is also good. when he gets back you will both realize just how much you mean to each other and appreciate all the little things and all the time together. just stay strong and lean on family and friends when u get lonely..i know this from experience..finding something to help pass the time makes it so much easier and the time goes by waaaay quicker!

Kudos! i’m new here and i already get the feeling that you’re one of the ppl on this site that make it what it is.

you know, they say in order to be a good half of a relationship, you have got to be a good whole you…work on making yourself the best version of you (according to your own standards) and then you won’t need a girl (fantastic or not) to give u reason to not get on the pipe…