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• ive found perfection. posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  perfection even thinks IM perfect! :D what cud be better than this, right? well, weve told eachother…

• i want to tell all of you that i went through a lot of fcuked up sh! posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
  t this year but i am so happy right now. nothing has changed, only my perspective has. things are no…

• do any of you believe in the statement that ‘you cant go back home again’…and why? posted (2 years, 5 months) ago
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• im going to go crazy.. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  the man im in love with dated me for a while and went grovelling back to his ex, and is going crazy …

• ive been friends with a guy since two years now. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  he’s been there for me throughout, we’ve hung out together all the time, went everywhere togethe…

• ive been friends with a guy since two years now. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  he’s been there for me throughout, we’ve hung out together all the time, went everywhere togethe…

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• (1 vote) The man I love is engaged to be married.
  

  Is he by any chance from pakistan?
  
  - written 2 years, 5 months ago – voted for by Sylentia

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• ive found perfection.
  

  i just wanted to update you :)
  i got with him in the end. its been three months now and we’re really happy. thanks a lot for ur help !
  - written 1 week, 3 days ago

• i totally went head over heels for a girl junior year in college.
  

  i think it wud be a good idea to meet up with ur ex and decide whether u really dont have feelings for her or whether u do. if u dont, ull be contented with ur current situation…if not, then uve found what makes u happy again.
  personally, i think ure still into ur ex and it wud be a shame not to follow ur heart cuz marriage is a huge deal. if u guys didnt break up badly and just kind of drifted apart, i think it wud be a smart idea to seek her out and be with her. maybe the time is right now :)
  also, how did u feel when u read the above advice? its a good indicator of what ur heart wants. if u felt happy, u knw u want to be with ur ex. if u felt a little skeptical and unsure, u can pretty much bet ure just curious about things and hopefully this feeling of sadness will go away.
  - written 1 week, 5 days ago

• Should I stay?
  

  shes playing you. whatever it is, u dont deserve it. dont act like ure the only one truly interested in ur relationship, cuz i dont think she is cuz when a girl wants to be with a guy, shes not ‘unsure’. this is emotional manipulation and nobody should put up with it. try it…tell her ure done and see her reaction. ull know what to do then.
  - written 4 weeks ago

• My boyfriend is “confused” and has been staying at his mum’s for 3 nights now.
  

  i dont think ur mom shud call him…thats going to be a little pushy..but thts just what i think.
  - written 2 months ago

• ‘Love’ vs ‘In Love’ (Very long post)
  

  hello. i think you did the right thing. he has his own issues to sort out which u cannot sort for him. its nothing wrong, maybe just bad timing.
  the question in the end is…how long can one love someone who doesnt love themselves? or whether even you CAN love them?
  i think ull do fine, even if you dont feel like it right now. u seem stable. if its meant to be 5 yrs down the lane, it will happen. if not, then its okay. ull find someone to fall in love with. someone who will fulfill ur expectations. until then, chill out. life your life. depression in a partner can kill u.
  - written 3 months, 1 week ago

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