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Let him know what you think… that you are OK with it (I guess you have no choice if you love your son), this should open up the conversation.

To help your son you need to help yourself first, read about it or join support groups to learn to deal with it, don’t be afraid of taking the first step.

Your sone is probably having a hard time dealing with it himself, just never let him know about that you find out by going thru his things… he will lose the sense of privacy.

I’m assuming he is not girly because you didn’t find out before. He can leave all his dreams, not yours.

Hope this helps.

Talk to her and let her know how you feel, she doesn’t have to take s**t from nobody. Sometimes girls won’t speaking for fear of losing her boyfriend… but if he is a jerk then he does not deserve her.

It’s the hormones, my son is 13 now and he gets through some rough times in school, self conscious about appareance and being skinny… sometimes I feel bad for him because I went thru the same ordeal, but you get over it. It’s just a phase.

Don’t try to change because these years define who you are, all the problems you face will build a strong character for the future and you will become a better person.

There is nothing worst that pretending to be someone you are not.

Hang in there. But if problems get worst talk to your parents, they will understand.

Get counseling, this is serious. Check:

http://www.avert.org/homosexu.htm

I landed on this website using google search, maybe your buddy has the answers in help.com that everybody is looking for…

Don’t celebrate drinking… read this fact sheet.

http://www.collegedrinkingprevention….

I believe you already did, now is his turn… if it doesn’t work out… walk away. I know it’s easy to say, but believe me, you don’t want someone that doesn’t have an interest in you.