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elatenradiate: Thank you for the full and complete answer. I appreciate the specific concrete observations you made and the time you took to send me the message. I always felt “severe” and I guess you confirmed that. I can fix these details. I hope I may call upon you for additional help. In the meantime I’ll try to reduce the distortion in my pix.
And I always thought tall was good- except when trying to get into a car or find good looking 11b shoes.

Feeling much better about the skin I’m in, and thank you again,

Ronda

Well I thought it was the distortion in my avotar that led to the above positive compliments, so I posted a new full length pix- AND ITS WORSE! I shrunk it by 75%.

Well thank you godlovesunme13 and DoubleO. Yes agree on inner beauty being very important, and also strength of chharacter and all the other gifts that age brings. But the plain fact is I’m suddenly on my own, and I’d like some masculine company- but thats where superficial beauty is important. Thats why I dialed up this forum.

Rhonda

Mij_ I clicked on you because I liked you style- EXCELLENT! How very refreshing. There are so many girls your age who carry enormous burdens of guilt, insufficiency, inadequacy, and it affects their whole life. So I congratulate you
and your outlook on life. Keep it up girl!

Just posting you make me feel better, I’m past 50, and not very pretty ever- and I was feeling sorry for myself and hoping for a few hints that would change things around for me. But I do feel better now

Rhonda

well I just managed to post a somewhat distorted avotar- at least you can see something. Check profile.