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• haven’t been here for a while but wanted to share a recent experience… posted (3 weeks, 3 days) ago
  On May 31st at 12;05 AM as I was holding my brother’s hand he died peacefully after a long ba…

• Looking for anyone with any experience on this issue. posted (4 months, 3 weeks) ago
  I have a 2 year old son and custody is shared with his father and I. It has become very noticeable…

• You try, you learn, you try, you fail. posted (4 months, 3 weeks) ago
  It’s a vicious cycle. To know that your past will always in someway affect your present becau…

• A thought…The president and politicians which run our country (not exactly an easy job) are constantly under scrutiny, a job which they run for posted (4 months, 4 weeks) ago
  thought…The president and politicians which run our country (not exactly an easy job) are co…

• Some people like simple. posted (5 months, 1 week) ago
  Some people like complicated. Some people like to make complicated matters simple. Others complicat…

• Is it natural for human beings to fear and distrust each other? posted (5 months, 3 weeks) ago
  Think about it and be honest, at one time or another, the vast majority of us have accused someone…

• 2 questions. posted (5 months, 3 weeks) ago
  1. If a man in a space ship called earth and said I am one light year away, I will be there in 3 e…

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Jade's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) I’m nearing 9,999 replies.
  

  Xeno….10,000 replies…seems you need a day job! hehe
  
  - written 4 months, 4 weeks ago – voted for by ~lilies~

• (1 vote) To the Ladies of Help.com be you 13 or 43
  

  Rich, you’re girls are very lucky to have you as their father.
  
  
  Gary, here is the quote you asked about…
  
  When the Japanese mend broken objects, they repair the damage by filling the cracks with gold. They believe that when something’s suffered damage and has a history it becomes more beautiful.
  
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago – voted for by UCreateUrReality

• (1 vote) i’ve been dating this guy for over 6 months now, and i love him to death, but my mom is trying to keep us from each other.
  

  No advice…but I will give you my story.
  
  I met my ex husband at the age of 21 on a blind date, dated for a year and got married. MY mother did not want me to get married to him based on a feeling she had about him. i fought her tooth and nail and KNEW I KNEW better.
  
  I didn’t listen, got married, my mother accepted him into the family as did the rest of my family.
  
  17 years later I divorced that man for being emotionally and physically abusive to me. HE never showed a sign of it that I could see. The abuse became horrible about 10 years ago (very few know how bad). My mother could see it before I even told her…why? She lived that way with my father.
  
  Mom’s…they have those gut feelings - not always right/wrong. Just make sure you take it under advisement, look deeper into the situation and trust and listen to every instinct that you have. As a mom I too, can ’see’ stuff before it happens.
  
  It’s a gift of love.
  
  - written 5 months, 1 week ago – voted for by Junaid

• (1 vote) is racism no longer an issue in america
  

  Of course it’s still an issue just another example given by you having to ask the question does it still exist.
  
  When it no longer exists, the question will no longer have to be asked.
  
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by issybelle

• (1 vote) I need some help.
  

  OMG…
  
  Dear sttrprtgrl11:
  
  As a 40 year old woman I can testify that I was the same as you at the age of 12 - 40. Good for you! Enjoy it, there is absolutely nothing wrong with you.
  
  As for the porn, there are very few who don’t enjoy, a majority who secretly watch and a good few that are honest to admit they enjoy it. I, for one do.
  
  Sweetheart, as long as you are acting on your desires in private, that it is not taking control of your life (ie not affecting school work, studies, and time with friends and family) Keep on going.
  
  If you do find that it’s affecting all of the above, then it’s time to set some ground rules for yourself as to when and where. If you find that you can’t set simple ground rules, then YES, you do have a problem and need to consider speaking in private with your doctor (no, you don’t have to talk to your parents if you don’t want to and yes, your doctor should keep it confidential as long as it is NOT life threatening).
  
  As for the religious aspect of it - IF GOD wanted us to just procreate, he wouldn’t have made it feel so good. You have a healthy curiosity. Remember that porn is just like all the other movies, do what is right for you don’t try to live what you see on tv.
  
  Lastly, as for the computer, you do need to be careful, erasing the history is just not enough for someone who knows what they are doing. Be careful.
  
  - written 5 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by ɐʇɐɯɹǝɟ.Suc

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• I want proof of the existence of God..
  

  [quote mas1s]Well that is quite an angry sad song. She isnt shy of asking a question or two - totally talented as well (watched the live version)[/quote]
  
  
  Interesting take on that song…I never heard ‘angry’ just a longing to understand what happens after this life is over, especially one with struggle and strife.
  
  Amazing how there can be so many interpretations, makes me wonder what the artist felt or feels when she sings it.
  - written 2 weeks ago

• I don’t see the hype with alcohol and its “evil” PR or whatever.
  

  Alcohol is not the problem…people are the problem. If people were to limit themselves, assign designated drivers (or just stay home) then you have solved the majority of the problem.
  
  That being said…there are some people who just should not drink for they cannot handle it and become abusive. My father was a mean alcoholic - 1 *just one* and he was the meanest spirit bastard on the face of the earth.
  
  People need to understand their own limitations and abide by them. I enjoy a glass of wine with dinner, beer after working out in the yard, or watching the game. Martini’s are a favorite as is sake with sushi. But I know how much I can handle depending on my food intake, my activity level and how tired I may be.
  
  Drugs…been there done that…NEVER AGAIN. Maturity rules!
  - written 2 weeks ago

• I want proof of the existence of God..
  

  LOL…all that for a Take Care….wow you are easy to please! LOL have a great day!
  - written 2 weeks ago

• I want proof of the existence of God..
  

  Michael, nor am I…just tired. LOL
  
  I just wonder if we are ever supposed to know if God exists. Perhaps the key is to rely upon our faith and find our ‘proof’ on our own. Maybe no one is supposed to be capable of giving anyone the proof they seek. (just a thought…)
  
  take care…
  
  Jade
  - written 2 weeks, 1 day ago

• I want proof of the existence of God..
  

  [quote Michael Leibman]”But I’ve never seen anyone try in any meaningful way to prove God’s existence on this site …” — and it’s a question asked every couple of days, so it’s not like people haven’t tried to get “the proof of god” here.[/quote]
  
  
  Ok, that’s a little too much…Meaningful to whom??? The person answering the question or the person posting the query?
  
  See that’s the problem on this site and why some many are choosing to leave or limit their time here. Who are you (generalization) to decide what is meaningful to me (generalization)?
  
  If you post a query and seek out help - people will share their experience because it was MEANINGFUL TO THE REPLIER.
  
  My step dad has a great quote - advise is only worth what you are willing to pay for it. If you consider it worthless - ignore it but at least appreciate the fact that the effort was made by the replier.
  - written 2 weeks, 1 day ago

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