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• Emotional abuse -Has it affected your life? posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  Most abusers do not intend to be abusive, however, they do intend to have their way, and will use …

• Come, Rest Awhile… posted (3 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Enjoy…… [youtube:http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PH-snsXw1as&feature…

• What do you think has brought about the suicidal urges, and desires to self mutilate, that we see as epidemic today? posted (3 months, 3 weeks) ago
  IN our culture. I have these thoughts on this topic: I think each generation changes… one…

• Hate, Revenge, Abuse, Fear, Bullying, Inconsideration, Lying, Cheating, Cutting, Depression, Name Calling, Ugliness, Control, Addiction… posted (4 months) ago
  Can you think of some very good alternatives???? And for those who would be ugly…Don’t…

• SHAKE IT OFF… AND STEP UP! posted (4 months, 1 week) ago
  !!! I heard a story one time, of an old mule that fell into a very deep hole that was being filled…

• Philosopy of Life posted (4 months, 2 weeks) ago
  Be Patient Be open minded Smile often Saviour special moments Make new friends Rediscover old one…

• ALL TIME GREATEST POST… posted (4 months, 2 weeks) ago
  http://help.com/post/164421-dear-god I have just been in awe, at this post !!!! I really believe i…

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• (5 votes) im stuck between science and religion my religion doesn’t
  

  I HAVE SEEN THE EVIDENCE OF GOD,
  In the smile of a child….
  In a butterflys intricate wings…..
  In a gentle rain drop… on a dry day…….
  In the eyes of a new mommy and daddy……
  In all things good and gentle……
  In unmerited forgiveness……
  In a helping hand… in time of need…..
  In the fact that the sun comes up each morning…..
  And goes down each evening…..
  Allowing us time to work, and play….
  and rest… when we are tired…..
  In the hands of the drs…as they bring forth a miracle……
  In the new advent of medicine… that allows for healing to take place…
  In the rain, that comes to water the crops, and the flowers…..
  food for us to eat.. and beauty for our eyes….
  In the tear drops that fall…
  and a newborn infants cry…….
  In the billions of dollars of aid… that is given each year…….
  to those that are in need of help…..
  In the way our nation… comes to the aid of others that are helpless…..
  In the untiring efforts of his people… to share his message…. of love….
  and hope… and of good cheer…..
  In the uncondional love of a dog… spelled backwards… god…..
  I HAVE SEEN THE EVIDENCE OF SATAN;
  In the hatred that is all around…
  In the voice of unforgiveness….stubbornly holding its ground…..
  In the violent acts that are random and senseless……
  Being perpertrated upon mankind…..
  In the refusal to help… when it lies within ones means to do so….
  In the hatred and mockery that is shown to the loving and kind creator……
  In the presence of a false witness……
  In one willing to lie…. no matter who or what it hurts……
  In the child molestor……..
  And the gossiper… too……
  Bringing pain…. and suffering… all around……
  In the hands of the powerful…..
  As they crush the little man……..
  As the dominent… push the others… out of the way……
  As children are jerked out of the hands of parents…..
  doing the best they can……
  All that could help… stand by…. unmoved…. by their plight…..
  In the baby… renamed a fetus….by a society that demands they be catered to…
  Regardless of the pain… caused to anyone else…..
  Especially that of an innocent child….
  Torn apart.. .piece by piece…in its mothers womb……
  Strictly for convenience sake……
  No remorse…. from the ones that should defend it until the death….
  The mother…….and the often times, absent or uncaring father…..
  In great disasters…. and chaos…..
  In the break up of families…..
  Parents chasing dollars… or other men or women…..
  at the sake of their children….
  offering them up… on the alter of…….
  self desire……
  being far more important… than the wonderful gift of life….
  that has been intrusted to their care…..
  In the way that evil rushes to snuff out good… before it has a chance to move…
  In the old people, being shut away from society….
  Stuffed into elderly homes.. to be abused… and forgotten……
  In the loneliness of one… that seems to have no one…..
  in ones that are ignored….. by the masses…..
  In the laws that are passed, that hurt certain ones, terribly……
  Behind the scenes…bringing hunger and thirst to multitudes….
  Thru greed… or manipulation of the weather….. or power….
  In the endless acts of violence against our fellowmen…
  regardless of what color, or race, or religion they are….
  they are still human beings….
  created in the image of God…..
  And Satan can’t hurt God… except by hurting them…..
  I, for one… need no other proof…..
  Case closed……
  
  - written 12 months ago – voted for by Dubai-Safari (ours), Hope, Grego, inactive account, _Anthony_

• (2 votes) I am 25 and was in the property management business, let me tell you that wasn’t fun.
  

  Awwwww honey… I am so sorry this is happening.. I wish I could make it all go away, but, that only works in the movies, unfortunately… but… you are on the right track… I admire your wanting to be with your children…. and I think you did the right thing… God can make a way.. where there is no way… keep praying… and press in… don’t give up… get out your bible, and read it.. it will increase your faith… faith is what it takes to please God.. we have to believe with all our hearts.. that he is there, and will help us… stand upon his word… and believe it.. look in it and find his promises…. and here are some places where you can post prayer requests..
  
  godswork.org
  
  dailyguidepost.org
  
  wjcr.org
  
  God can work, when nothing else will.. and he can help you thru this… and what evre else comes your way… pray everymorning… and place that day in his hands, asking for his provision for that day, ask for his guidance, his counsel, his direction, his provision. etc.and continually thank him for bringing you out…
  
  Let us know how it goes…
  
  Dear Heavenly Father, I thank you for the faith, that this dear one has, and for your word, that is full of promises for us, thank you that you care about what is happening to us, and that you have the power to move on our behalf, thank you that you have a plan.. that will work… I pray for that plan to come into effect, and I thank you ahead of time, for working in this situation, thank you for answers, for help, and for turning all this around… we give you praise, ahead of time, for what you are willing to do.. IN Jesus Name. Amen.
  
  God be with you….
  
  - written 1 year ago – voted for by puppylove120, Grego

• (1 vote) usually i am so positive and i can usually think of
  

  Hi honey… ((hugs)) You have sooooo come to the right place !!!! The people that are here on your post, are here because they truly care about what you are going thru, and want to encourage you. Much great advice is coming forth…. and I see hope in your voice :) Sometimes all it takes is just a bit of caring… to release us from the tight grip we find ourselves in.
  
  One thing for sure, we are all human, and guess what… we are in this together.
  
  The judgemental people you speak of are kinda like the plague…. however, they can be dealt with and overcome.
  
  Know in your heart, that when someone is judging you.. they are not loving you….
  and guess what.. Jesus taught love.
  
  He in fact, tells us very explicitly Do not judge.
  
  Do we all listen.. no. But, we should.
  
  Loveing is far better than judging anyday.
  
  I love God with all my heart, and I love the people that he created. If I can be of help to anyone of them, I will. It brings me pleasure. It is my way of giving back to the God that loved me so.
  
  God has need of nothing. He is sufficient, unto himself. However, he does need his children to be loved. And that is where we come in. We are his hands, his feet, his eyes, his body… and we can have his heart.
  
  He created the world, and gave it to us. He put man in charge of his creation, that he so lovingly created. What we do with it, we will be judged for, by him, not by us. If we live everyday, looking around, keeping our eyes and our ears and our hearts open, we can hear the tiny distress cries all around us. If we reach out and meet a need, or extend a helping hand, then, we have been used by God that day. We have fulfilled his will, if we love our fellowman. Jesus summed it up in a nutshell, the greatest commandment of all time, is to love God with all your heart, mind, soul, strength, and body, and the second, is like unto it, Love your neighbor as yourself. If we do those two things, we have fulfilled the will of God for our lives.
  
  Also, if we are walking in love, we can face down those who would judge us, by loving them. Most likely, they are the ones that need it the most. There is no defense against love, it will melt the strongest resistance.
  
  Rise up, and square your shoulders, and march into that church, like your heavenly Father owned it, because.. guess what.. He does.
  
  And you are the apple of his eye. He delights in you, and wants you to know it. You are a peculair treasure to him, as there is only one person on planet earth that has your exact design. Over 6 billion on planet earth, and your voice print, and your fingerprint, are unique to you, and you only.
  
  Our God loves diversity. That is why he created us all similar, yet, very different. Look around and marvel, at the wonderful world that he created.. just for us. Take time to smell the roses. The little things in life that we so often take for granted…. are truly the most precious.
  
  The smile of a child. The beauty of a sunset. The gentle breeze as it drifts by. The slight touch of a butterfly, and it glides along, so effortlessly. The nudge of a cold but loving puppies nose. The delicate aroma of a freshly picked flower. Time spent with your little one, doing nothing, but, being with them. learning to live in the moment… yesterday is gone, we are not promised a tommorrow, we have today, that is why it is called The Present. Enjoy it to the fullest.
  
  Find ways that cost nothing. Koolaid in the park, a walk in the moonlight. A trip to the nearby mountains, or beach or lake or pond. Or.. analyze a puddle.. there is something majestic in everything, when we look for it. We may have to put on our rose colored glasses.. but, so what, it is worth it.
  
  Seeing the beauty all around is a cure for the most depressing of situations.
  
  Also, if, you still need something to help you along, after implementing all these suggestions that have come forth, Walmart has a 4.00 prescription list, that has something on it, for every ailment. I take 3 diff. meds each month, all from this list. Usually if you tell your dr. that you do not have ins, and cannot afford it at this time, they can give you a discount, up to 50% off of the normal bill. this is a blessing to many. and I sincerely hope that no one causes this blessing to cease. INs. co… mainly… ask.. if they can be of help… if not, call until you find one that will, then, go to Walmart and get a copy of the drug list, and keep it with you, asking the dr. to pick something from that list. And I thank God, that this is now possible for the many who so desperately need it.
  
  Many Blessings…..
  
  - written 3 months ago – voted for by Miss Flo

• (1 vote) The Anti-corporeal Experiment
  

  Very interesting questions, and very interesting answers.
  
  Opinions are like noses, we all have one,
  
  and here’s mine :)
  
  001 What is my purpose here on this earth?
  
  I find purpose & meaning to life, by enjoying it to the fullest, and living it in a way that brings glory to God.
  
  002 Is there a superior being or a creator; who is He?
  
  Absolutely, His name is Jehovah. The God of Abraham, Issac & Jacob.
  
  
  003 Do we have a soul?
  
  Yes, we are a spirit, we live in a body, and we have a soul. Triune being, just like our creator is 3 in 1. God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Ghost.
  
  004 Is death really the end?
  
  No, it is just the beginning. Our spirit lives on, for eternity.
  
  
  005 Who teaches me what is right and wrong? Is there good and evil?
  
  God gave us a conscience, to help us know right from wrong, and we learn from our parents, and all the other people and circumstances that we come in contact with, during our lifetime. And absolutely, yes, there is good and evil…It is all around us.
  
  
  006 What will I teach my children about life?
  
  I tried to instill fairness, and justice, honesty, and integrity into my children, as well as faith. I have two, and I am very proud of both of them, and also of my beautiful grandaughter.
  
  007 Is there anyone in my life that has done me good?
  
  Yes, I have been priviledged to know many good people over the years, that have blessed me with their friendship. They def. make the journey much more rewarding.
  
  008 Is love really real?
  
  Absolutely….. No doubt about it. It is great when it is alive in your life, and not so great when it’s not. Also, I think the def. of love varies, according to who you happen to be asking.
  
  
  Now, we know what you have been doing ^J^ Thinking on the deep things of life ~smiles~ Thanks for allowing us to share.
  
  God bless..
  
  - written 3 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by sos1234

• (1 vote) My name is casey im 23 years old and I hate my life.
  

  Awwww Honey……(((HUgs))) Wowowow… boy do I have some good news for you !!! Do you know that Jesus Christ died for you, that you could be forgiven for all the bad and evil things that you have done, and also, that the ones that did them to you, could be forgiven as well???
  
  It is wonderful to know that we can be forgiven.. however.. not so wonderful that Jesus requires that we forgive those who tormented or tortured or abused us.
  
  That sounds strange that he would ask us to do that… also, that he would forgive us, when we come to the place where we need and desire his forgiveness.But, that is what the bible says. And that is very Good News.. indeed.
  
  A brand new slate.. wiped clean.. by the blood of the Lamb….
  
  Just for the asking.
  
  Available to you.
  
  right now.
  
  You do not have to wait…
  
  All you have to do is pray.
  
  Ask God to come into your heart, and forgive you of every sin that you have ever committed, and give you peace.
  
  He can and he will.
  
  Do not wait, and live in misery, any longer.
  
  Not one second more.
  
  Ask him now, so that you can be free from the past, and start anew.
  
  If you have any questions, please feel free to shout me anytime.
  
  I will help you. And pray for you.
  
  Father, I pray that this young person can find the peace and freedom that you so willingly offer, help them today, to draw closer to you, and to understand what you want to do for them, lead them in the way that they should go, and bring them into what you have for them. In Jesus Name. Amen.
  
  
  God be with you.
  
  - written 3 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by icedemonkenj

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• I am worried about MamaBear/Felicity/Kim.
  

  I haven’t been on in some time, so, I do not know what is going on, however, I do truly care about Kim. I think she gave me her cell number, and I was not going to use it, as I didn’t want to run up her minutes, but, since you are concerned, I think she will forgive my calling to check on her. If I get thru, I will let you know what she says.
  
  Felicity…. I love you… and God loves you more. You are a wonderful person, and I admire you greatly. I have no idea, what could have brought you down, (if you are in fact ) as I know you to be a very strong person. However, we are all human, and being so, are really very fraigle, even when we may not seem that way.
  
  Father, I lift up my dear friend to you, asking you to draw very close to her, to encourage her, to lift her spirits, to renew her hope, to fight her battles for her, and to let her know that we care very much about her. Please take care of whatever might be wrong. Amen.
  
  God be with you Sis……. I love you.
  - written 4 hours, 35 minutes ago

• A girl I know died and I want you to read this.
  

  I wasn’t able to read the diary, maybe it is my eyes, or my computer, as it seems that others were able to read it. I am very sorry for everyone involved, and hope that closure will come to each one, in time, and that you can remember how lovely her life seemed to be, and what joy she brought to those around her, also, that God was very much a part of her life, so, that all who belong to him, will be able to see her again one day.
  
  God be with each of you.
  - written 4 hours, 40 minutes ago

• Heres a little story that may help you understand me.
  

  I am very sorry for the events that were so very tragic, however, I am very glad that you are alive and able to enjoy life, I sincerely hope that your real mother has been able to find the healing that she needs for what she went thru.
  
  What a blessing to have a wonderful family that truly wanted you as a son, to raise as their own, and the fact that they were able to share with you the truth, so that you don’t have to wonder about your birth mother, is good too. Some children live a lifetime, wondering and never being able to find out the truth.
  
  You are blessed indeed, in spite of all the difficulties.
  
  
  God be with you.
  
  
  (((HUgs)))
  - written 4 hours, 55 minutes ago

• I was with my boyfriend 5 years.
  

  I am very sorry that you are going thru this, and know that it has to be terrible… However, hearts and emotions do heal, given time. I hope that you can get a sense of closure, on this, even if it dosen’t seem to make any sense. I do believe truly that there is someone out there, for everyone, and maybe this was not that someone. Maybe his coming forward now, will have spared you more pain down the road.
  
  Wishing you the best….. (((Hugs)))
  
  Gayla S.
  - written 5 hours, 6 minutes ago

• Just to tell you all about a very special little girl.
  

  My neighbor recently introduced me to a nutritional supplement, that has helped me tremendously, I sincerly believe it would be a real blessing to you too. It is all natural, and a blend of 26 diff. juices, it builds the immune system, and you can experience results immediately. It costs about forty dollars per bottle, and you take 2 ounces 2-3 times per day. The results have been amazing. If you are int. please send me a shout.
  
  God be with you.
  
  Gayla S.
  - written 5 hours, 12 minutes ago

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