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• RAM Dump? posted (5 years, 9 months) ago
  ?? http://help.com/post/94418-lost-an-important-email I have just written this. The only way I c…

• Lost an important email. posted (5 years, 9 months) ago
  I was writing an important email in thunderbird. I saved it as a draft so i didn’t loose it w…

• I’ve got strange abdominal pains. posted (5 years, 10 months) ago
  I’ve looked it up on google and found that what describes the feeling I’m getting getti…

• Julie Bobbins would like a new name. posted (5 years, 11 months) ago
  After doing a google search on my screenn name - chosen with total innocence - I have decided I thi…

• My heads thumping. posted (5 years, 11 months) ago
  He’s with her again! I know it’s the last time but it makes me sick! My mind doing loo…

• I stand looking at through the window at the bottom of the stairs. posted (5 years, 11 months) ago
  Transfixed at the light at the end of the falling tunnel. I hear his words. I know he’s right…

• I am so Angry Today! posted (5 years, 12 months) ago
  I can’t stop snapping at my other-half! I feel like I want to hurt myself or throw myself o…

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• Lost an important email.
  

  Well - I re-wrote the message. Took me hours again but I did it.
  
  Thanks for your help though.
  
  molotok - that would be a great idea but it wasn’t the same email - I had written over it so it didn’t have any of the saved draft in it when sent.
  
  I think I’ve learnt a valuble lesson!
  
  Jeolle, That’s what I usually do but for some reason I didn’t this time! STUPID GIRL!!!!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• I am having really big trust/insecurity issues, please can you help me I don’t wanna feel like this.
  

  I am going to jump in here and prepare to be flames.
  
  You are not RIGHT to feel the way you do. It is irrational. Your husband has done nothing wrong. Amateur dance classes that share partners are not uncommon.
  
  However… it is not OK for you to feel like this, it is not your fault, your feeling are just that - YOUR feelings. Even though your anger is an over reaction it is normal and understandable to feel some jealousy with a situation like this.
  
  If it is causing upset and pain then you need to work around this. Phone round some other dace classes in your area. Find one that is couples only or has couples that go and dance together exclusively. Don’t go back there - it’s not going to do either of you any good. And have a chat about why you feel like this try to work through your insecurities.
  
  I agree also on finding other things that you can do together - that would be great for you both.
  
  Good luck!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• what is this!
  

  Try having a quick gander through these. Or have a google yourself.
  
  
  http://www.mental-health-matters.com/articles/article.php?artID=153
  
  http://www.biologicalunhappiness.com/AskDoc/doc439.htm
  
  http://psychologytoday.com/articles/index.php?term=pto-3083.html&fromMod=popular_personality
  
  http://www.healthboards.com/boards/archive/index.php/t-122247.html
  
  http://ask.metafilter.com/66517/Is-compulsive-lying-linked-with-any-recognised-mental-disorders
  
  
  
  The thing is, we can’t diagnose you, only a trained psychologist or psychiatrist can with your help. You need to go and see someone about this if it is causing you issues. No one will ever be able to get close to the real you until you can stop. The good news, though, is you’ve not only admitted it to your self but you’ve written it down. That looks to me like you’re ready to do something about it.
  
  Good luck!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• im 13 and how tall will you be if you are 5 foot
  

  lol @ C&C
  
  I take it you mean how old will you end up if you are 5 foot 10 at 13. But if you mean your question literally I agree with C&C.
  
  I stopped growing at the age of 13 - so you may end up as 5 foot ten or you may be taller!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

• i like to hurt myself.
  

  No problem yay_bubbles - it helped me when I was going through some stuff I’m glad it’s helped you to!
  
  It’s always good to know there are people who feel the same things as you do yourself.
  
  You’re right you can do this and you will! Not goign to be easy but well worth it!
  
  Hope you doing OK! Good luck!
  - written 5 years, 9 months ago

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