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• I am here to ask the ladies something here. posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  I got dumped by my ex about 3 months ago after a 7 month relationship. During such time i gave her a…

• Long story short, i have this friend that was going out with this guy for a week. posted (2 years, 3 months) ago
  This guy took things extremely fast and within the first 12 hours of meeting my friend started to ma…

• I am not afraid to say that sunday night i was dumped by my gf. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  I am not heart broken to say just pissed. She hid things from me for so long and didn’t tell…

• For the longest time i have been a person of no religion. posted (2 years, 6 months) ago
  One that has looked upon himself for guidence and my girlfriend seems to see something i don’…

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• im still in love w/my ex but he has a girlfriend…this
  

  Do i ever relate to this problem. Trust me i have been put in that position to where i told my ex whether we are together or we aren’t friends cause i couldn’t handle it. Just relax, meditate, pray, or whatever ya need to do to find the answers and they will show themselves.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• im gay and im the most popular girl in school &
  

  Don’t be afraid to express who you are. Granted you are the “most popular girl in school” but ya know what if you friends and such really like you and such, they will look past that. just becuase you are attracted to the same sex doesn’t mean you are any less of a human being, and if you lose your popularity it wouldn’t mean the end of the world. Be proud and be strong
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• I am here to ask the ladies something here.
  

  This is true, she does think that cause all of my friends that know her says the same thing, but once i tell the whole story not just from my end, people see it differently cause i tell it in a sense that not only did she have her wrongs, and she did, i did have my own. Now here is a question on this, granted i know an easy soluttion to this problem is to just say away from her, but is this the only real solution. I know that no matter what she does, even getting on her knees and beg me i won’t forgive her for what she done, but i have composed my life out of being a way to nice of a guy, aka doormatt. I want to be an *** but if she goes about it a different way and asks for me back or whatever the case maybe blah blah blah blah, i may be suckered into it. So there is not only the negitive backlash i may recieve, but the other type of feedback that isn’t neccarly positive but sure is negitive still. I don’t want her back i don’t want to even speak to her, yet i know i have to share at least 2 friends with her cause it would just be cruel if i ask my friends to choose. I don’t feel it is my responsibility to keep away from her as much as it is visa versa. The place she hangs out on campus is the place that holds the cafeteria and campus store so yeah……
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• Long story short, i have this friend that was going out with this guy for a week.
  

  But here is a the question, am i to think that what he said is what i think? Granted i don’t know this guy but i just want to make sure and see if i am not the only person that the message he protayed when he said that is what i think?
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

• I’m sure its not a unique problem.
  

  Look, i know what you mean i can relate but there is so much more in life than what you think. Just find something and go for it, just make little goals and work on them and work to bigger and better things, just don’t get bored.
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago

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