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• My fiance is in jail. posted (1 year, 3 months) ago
  He has been there since late March and will remain in there until at least January when he wil be se…

• I need advise about my fiance. posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  We dated from 2005-2007 and then we broke up. 2 months later he had another girlfriend. He blames it…

• I’m engaged! posted (1 year, 7 months) ago
  ! I am so excited and I love him and know he’s the one I will spend forever with! We have date…

• I’m scared to take the test! posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  i kind of thought that i may be pregnant, but i waited until i was at least late to find take a HPT…

• Could i be pregnant? posted (1 year, 8 months) ago
  ? I know I said I would be more careful but I guess we got caught up in the moment (5 times in 2 we…

• Is it possible that im pregnant? posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  3 days ago and then the day after I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend- well that’s the ki…

• i’m trying to throw up by sticking my fingers down my throat but i can’t. posted (1 year, 9 months) ago
  am i doing it wrong?? i tried by index and then my middle but neither is working and i don’t h…

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rtt06's Top (3) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) What is something that you have always wanted to hear someone say to you?
  

  One night my ex thought i was asleep and he whispered in my ear, “I love you and I’m going to marry you one day. You are perfect and I hope you never leave me. I love you so much” I miss him and i wish I could hear that from him again :(
  
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago – voted for by *kten*

• (1 vote) So to those of you who have read Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows- what did you think?
  

  i thought it was really sad that Fred died…she never said what happened to George, cuz ya know they did everything together. and who is the girl at the end that Ted (lupin and tonks kid) is kissing?? Cuz they said it was their cousin- but whos daughter is it- Georges? Bills? Percys? Charlies? OMG I love that Ron and Hermione got married!!!!!!!!
  
  - written 2 years, 3 months ago – voted for by US Navy?

• (1 vote) I’m a girl, and I kinda have a crush on my friend, who is a girl as well.
  

  You shouldn’t be ashamed! You are who you are and you should be proud! Who cares what anyone else thinks- they are not you and don’t have to live your life. You shouldn’t be unhappy for the rest of your life because of what other people think. It is better to be hated for who you are than loved for who you are not. Just be yourself. As for your friend, She will feel uncomfortable if you tell her how you feel and most likely it will ruin your relationship. Think about how you would feel if another friend you have told you they had feelings for you…it would be awkward, especially because if she is your best friend she sees you as a confidant and you all probably have sleepovers and see each other all the time. When you tell her she will not know how to act. Usually you can tell if someone has feelings for you- whether its a boy or a girl it makes no difference- and if you truly believe that maybe she feels the same then give it a try!! It could be the best decision you ever make! Or the worst. If you don’t feel the vibe or get any hints then leave well enough alone. Stay friends, but keep your distance so you won’t get hurt. Look for other girls or boys to talk to and eventually you will come out of this awkwardness. I think everyone has liked a friend at some point, but eventually you will move on. Good Luck!
  
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago – voted for by PersonalPandaParty

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• My fiance is in jail.
  

  thank you so much for all your support Grace. I know it may sound silly because I don’t personally know you, but your words are so comforting and so are everyone elses. Thank You everyone so much!
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• I would like to go to college online.
  

  There is financial aid- apply for it and then apply to a college- maybe a community college and take classes online. You don’t have to literally go to a school online most all colleges offer MANY online classes. Just make sure you can keep up- I took one thinking it would be easier and it really wasn’t. You have to be online all the time and make yourself do the assignments without being reminded. There are also really strict time limits so make sure your computer doesn’t crash at the wrong time. Good Luck!
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• In college, should i take US history UP TO 1877 or US history SINCE 1877?
  

  I’m telling you you have to take them both at some point- just pick but make sure you check out the prof on ratemyprofessor first- best thing ever made!
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• My fiance is in jail.
  

  thank you so much guys- lauren and grace you are so sweet. I do love him a lot. He was charged in federal court for 2 counts of transporting illegal aliens, kidnapping (this tied in with the first 2 counts- but the people lied so he could get in trouble because they decided they didn’t want to pay him- BTW he didn’t bring them into the US just stayed in an apartment with them for one of the counts and for the other count he was just a lookout for cops) the last count was for distributing crack cocaine- HE did not distribute it but he found an apartment for the dealer to sell out of and he did make profit from it, however it was not in his name but apparently the Government can find out anything they want. I know his charges sound horrible but it was part of the deal for him to plead guilty. He is a really harmless person and he did not act alone, but his “friend” left him and the blame was put on him- the good thing is that he helped the government immensely and was very cooperative so that means his sentence can go below the mandatory minimum, plus his judge is really really nice. Thank you guys so much your comments are really comforting- all I have been hearing is “leave you can get better” But he is the love of my life- we have been best friends forever. And about moving to New York- I have a lot going on back at home- mainly school and work and once he gets sentenced he will be moved back to Texas so we decided it would be best for me to stay in Texas, also I help his mom who is having a very hard time with this…she loves him very much. I know I have already gone through 5 months, but I think they went by fast because I kept thinking “OK he will get out this week, ok maybe next week” (his lawyer sucks and kept assuring us he would be home soon- the Immigration men that interviewed me even assured this) But now the next time he may come home will be January unless the Judge gives him time. He has never ever been in trouble before. He is just a good person trying to get money fast and all his roles were extremely minimal and everyone that I have consulted with think that it is highly possible that he get probation or no more than 3 years- but he would get time served if he did get time…I am just so greatful that his mom can afford all this- the phone calls cost $8 an hour and we try to talk twice a day but between work and school its hard. And the flights and hotel stays are definitely not cheap but she loves us and wants us to have as much contact as possible to keep our hopes up- BTW we can physically touch each other- its not a window which I am also very greatful for. Thanks again guys you definitely cheered me up tonight when all I felt like doing was curling up and sleeping forever…
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

• My little sister is due to give birth in three weeks, she is way too young to care for the babies so i am adopting them.
  

  Its really nice what you’re doing, but if you’re still a student aren’t you pretty young yourself and if you are not financially stable enough to buy even bottles you are about to have a rude awakening…babies are freakin expensive. They are beautiful gifts from God- but very expensive gifts. I think maybe you should consider telling your sister to let a mature, responsible, financially able, and wonderful couple or person adopt her beautiful bundles of joy. There are thousands of people out there that have the resources to care for kids but can not have biological ones of their own. Please- if you can not care for them and your sister can’t- give them to someone who can. It will be the best gift that you could ever give them I promise. However, if you still keep them despite your inability to afford them I wish you the best of luck- mainly for the children. I hope that they never go without and are raised in a good home. If you still need stuff try a baby shower with people who you know rather than strangers on the internet- you can throw it for your sister, although you will be the one getting to keep the gifts.
  - written 1 year, 3 months ago

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