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• I’m single again.
  

  You 16 and him 22 is a bad combination, against the law in some states. Stay in your own age bracket, at lease someone wont go to jail for a possible indiscretion.
  
  You are 16 and free to live and enjoy your life. Don’t get hung up on any one. Learn about life. You have plenty of time to be serious.
  
  Take care little one
  - written 8 months, 4 weeks ago

• my gf thinks im cheating on her… its the last
  

  Im assuming you are a young man and just starting your life. You owe it to yourself and to this girl to walk away now. You are putting yourself in an impossible situation. It will take a great deal of maturity, loyality, dedication and God’s blessings to begin to manage this relationship.
  
  Let her go, get another girl unless you are ready for the pain and angiush you are setting yourself up for.
  
  You can’t fix this……. relationships are hard …. communications are paramont…… Your present girl is not capable of managing a relationship.
  
  Am I saying it is not possible to have a successful relationship with her? Not at all….. Anything is possible…….. Why do this?
  
  wtfinger
  - written 1 year ago

• I’m single again.
  

  he’s a child!
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• Ive fallen in love with a friend of mine and the other day we kissed.
  

  I hope things work out for you… and please keep in mind that a real friend would not break up your marriage…
  
  good luck
  
  wtfinger
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

• Ive fallen in love with a friend of mine and the other day we kissed.
  

  Wow …. You want advice…. Stop seeing the friend. He is losing his marriage and breaking yours up as well. Not a real friend. You and he should both walk away or you should tell your husband and walk away from the marriage. Marriage is not a game and you are playing it for all it’s worth. You sound very selfish. You are either married or you are not. If you are, your first loyality to your family - your child and the father. If you don’t want them then give it up and let them restart their lives and you can do it to whom ever you wish. It is apparent that you intend to continue to see the friend because you want to go to the next level. You knew what you wanted to do before you posted. I personally think that regardless of what we tell you here, you will sleep with your friend.
  
  Everyday, married people make the decision to love and stay with their spouses. There is always a friend lurking in the shadows. Being married is not easy. It is dam hard sometimes. But husband needs a wife and baby needs a mom and a dad. I guess mom needs love. Try counseling or maybe church…
  
  Enjoy
  wtfinger
  - written 1 year, 1 month ago

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