courtybubble's shout trail with J.N Location unknown - Help.com

you have no sympathy.
second warning, do not shout me again.

I have the deepest sympathy for people that suffder mental illness, i do not however have any sympathy for those that see hurting other’s as a cure for their own problem’s.
Did you not say you USED to suffer an eating disorder? That would mean your evilness comes from elsewhere.

Courty, it’s a fact, you are ugly on the inside, your horrible to people, there is not a chance that you have not realized this, im not telling you something new, you can’t accidently be the way you are, you intend to do it, your reasoning is becoming clearer for your actions but that does not mean i am condoning what you do just because im getting closer to understanding the reasoning behind it.

I dont wish to talk to someone who would blame a mental illness on the victim without ANY knowledge of that persons past, nor call someone ‘deeply ugly on the inside” while you purport to be here to help people, nor cuss at me.
do not shout me again.

you clearly do not understand an eating disorder at all., if you think it is about appearance.
“it’s deep inside that your ugly”

wow. here to help huh? more like here to put people down to build your own fragile ego up, Id say. thats some nasty things to say right there.

Blame an eating disorder on you?
You clearly mis understood me.
Re read it, the meaning is clear enough, you had no need to try to change your appearance, i don’t even know what you look like but im pretty sure you did not need to change the way you look or your size, it’s what’s deeper than your appearance you need to work on, it’s deep inside that your ugly, you may look ok on the surface.

See now, thats why I mentioned this:

“It is clear, however, that you are not open to taking advice from anyone on how to adress this need, or that in fact your time may be currently taken up with improving the fault we so gloriously uncovered before.”

because it is quite clear from our converation, that spelling is in fact not your only fault.
I do so hope you one day realise this, come to terms with your imperfections, and strive to become that “bigger” person you seem so intent on proving yourself to be.
Though I am not keeping score, I would have thought accusing me of causing a severe mental illness in myself and cussing me out would put you a tad behind in the stakes.

well, shouts are public. anyone in the entire world can read them, all i did was click on your shoutbox to deliver a message and there they were, staring me in the face.
Odd that you would blame an eating disoder that threatened my life for 10 years on me, clearly you do not understand the mechanism of such a disease, but thats fine, Ill once again forgive your ignorance.
Theres no need to be rude and swear at me, I mean you’re not a child that needs to resort to that, come on. standards, please.

Odd that you think I’m lonely, I’m not sure where you got that from, more projection I guess…

feel free to point out my spelling / grammar mistakes if it will make you feel better.
Anything to help you resolve your own issues.
Man, im soo glad i only have to worry about my writing!!!

If you choose to read people’s shout’s (most likely due to a lack of a social life of your own) you must expect to find a content more exhilarating than you would be used to in your own life / existence.
You must accept that it is your personality that causes your loneliness & need to live out your so called life through other people’s.
It is a shame that you suffered an eating disorder, im quite sure that before you suffered from this affliction that you most likely looked absolutely fine the way you were, it was not your look’s or size that was pushing people away from you, it was your personality & attitude that did it.
If you are classed as the success story of help.com, that would go a long way towards explaining why you are still here after being banned & reported multiple times & being one of the most disliked people on the site.
I find it shocking that courty, the person that goes out of their way to offend & upset people (maybe this is a reason your so hated on this site, just a guess, i could be wrong, there could be some other reason behind it, im just a retard, not a detective, just jumping to the most obvious conclusion) found something i said a tad offensive. My how the table’s must of turned!
So, if it’s ok with you, im going to get on with conducting my “sexual relationship”, not in the shout boxes, but, if you need to let off again, ill be here for you.
Fuck you very much for your conversation, we really should do this more often, it’s been an absolute pleasure.
Im not even sure if i should believe what ‘they’ say about you, i don’t think your that bad.
We shall be talking again soon, until then, goodbye.

It’s obvious to me now you donot understand what exactly a metaphor is, so I’ll forgive you for the penis size comment, if you can’t understand the technical expression going on behind the comment, its forgiveable you would’nt understand why it was said in the first place.
I’ll also, when I have time, compile a list for you if you would like, of how a question mark can be used to enhance ones sentence. Rhetoric would be one of those ways, which is how your “question” was interpreted.
On the contrary, throughout my time here at help.com, I have recovered from a life threatening disorder, and even been referred to by 3 admin as “help.com’s success story”.
But you were’nt around then, so again I can see how you would misunderstand that.
I find it a tad offensive and hypocritical that you would deem to call me “bitchy”, when it was in fact you who began this entire conversation regarding a simple fact like “where has the chat room gone”.
I would have thought someone who was an adult, and secure within themselves would be capable of simply passing that by, and not passive agressively directing an insult at the calibur of the people who frequented the help.com chat room.
Its clear to me that you simply don’t understand what I am saying, and are incapable of realizing what my words mean, so, when your grammar, spelling, and use of the english language are up to par where you CAN understand, feel free to shout me back :)
Just one more little gem to add, i find it odd you accuse me of having self esteem issues when you seem to have a need to live out your sexual “relationship” through shouts here. Which is obviously not the forum for it. This leads me to wonder if you do in fact have some deep seated need for attention yourself, and is why you engage people who were merely replying to a post in such a way.
It is clear, however, that you are not open to taking advice from anyone on how to adress this need, or that in fact your time may be currently taken up with improving the fault we so gloriously uncovered before.
I do so hope you come to terms with this obviously troubling issue soon.
I, on the other hand, now need to get back to my relatively successful and now, after many years recovering from anorexia have passed, quite issue free life :)

I asked a question about does that make me the bigger person, there was a question mark following it, i assumed that was a give away that it was a question, i maybe assumed incorectly, i gave your interlect more credit than it was worth clearly, my mistake.
I must admit, i find it worrying that a female would enter into - correction - initiate, a penis size competition, very odd, is that another issue that you should be addressing?
You are in the right place (help.com) you just don’t seem to be able to get help for your issues, of which the list seem’s to be getting longer.
Such a shame, i feel kind of sorry for you, underneath your bitchy surface, if one was to dig deep enough, there would probabally be a sweet little girl just trying to get attention, all be it in the wrong way, but for some ppl, any attention is good attention, if that’s all you can hope to achieve & all you can aim for, it’s such a shame, wasted youth.
If it makes you feel better, feel free to insult me or put me down, i don’t mind, i would feel that i had done some good to a damaged individual if it would make you feel better to do so, just know, my shout box is alway’s available to you when you feel down on yourself & need a release, ill be expecting you here quite often i presume, no worries, im here to help.
Best wishes, JN :)

Hmm. You’re right, maybe that was a tad too much, a metaphor might not be the best way to communicate with you.
So let me explain it in laymans terms..
YOU purported to be the “bigger” person for somehow accepting a fault that you have, which I then translated into “better”. You initiated the conversation about one of us being somehow measurably or quantitaviely more of something than the other.
Do you get it now?

Clearly not, who started the penis comparison competition?
Was that not a question about being the bigger person? I know i have bad grammar but does a ? not mean it’s a question? Could be wrong, i could be completely mis educated on this, maybe you know a ? means something else? Maybe i have just used it wrong a lot.

Well yes, I did, in reference to your comment that this was about being a “bigger” person.
have you forgotten what you wrote?

Oh im sorry, did you not write this?
I wasn’t aware it was a penis size comparison competition we had going on here. If you feel it is such a competition, about being “better” than someone else, perhaps you should also look into the link you provided me with :S

Bigger/better, they’re both superlative adjectives meaning basically the same thing in a lot of cases.
What I meant to say what, you are the one who introduced the idea of one of us being a bigger or better person, not I, which I guess, if your last statement holds true, makes you the one with the esteem issues :S

About what? Being the bigger person?

“does that make me the bigger person here?”

You’re the one who talked about it.

You are completely wrong, were not comparing dick size’s here.
Why does it have to be about being “better” than someone? That again is a sign of low self esteem, we are not better or worse, that’s not what life is about, not everything is a competition, we don’t always have to be the best.
Accepting your fault’s is the first step toward’s fixing them, don’t you know that.

I wasn’t aware it was a penis size comparison competition we had going on here. If you feel it is such a competition, about being “better” than someone else, perhaps you should also look into the link you provided me with :S

It is, your right, thank you very much, i accept your advice that i need to work on my spelling, i agree, im not to proud to accept you pointing out my fault’s, does that make me the bigger person here?

As you suggested some “help” for me, so am I merely returning the favour.
After all, it is all about bettering ourselves, isn’t it :)

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Next time you want to try and insult me, please try using correct spelling and grammar, it makes it rather difficult to take you at any level other than silly retard when you can’t even spell what you’re trying to say:)
just a little hint;)