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Tracy, this is really hard to deal with I know from personal experence. But i have learned that you have to cut loose ends and if this friend finally notices what shes done she will come back dont do the same thing to her but dont keep trying to get her back just move on and what happens happens but if things dont change then she doesnt know what shes missing.

I dont think that this is something that is even legal. Maybe it is but if i were you i wouldnt act on your feelings.

no but i think he hasnt because my mom once had a restraining order on him he doesnt even know what i look like he hasnt seen me since i was a baby and my mom always said he wanted the best for me so maybe thats why he thinks its best if hes not in the picture but i dont i just want to talk to him is that so much to ask? :(

i did that for years but one day he wasnt in it anymore and that was when i turned 14 his name dissapeared from the book and she knows i want to she knows i want to real bad im just afraid i will never meet him and read the newspaper and find his death in there and i couldnt handle that pain =’(

i dont know so far she hasnt cause she doesnt understand how i feel shes right im wrong its just how it is she thinks i dont need anything from him i know i do

my mom gave me some photos and i know his name my mom has no contact information and doesnt mind if i meet him hes not even on my birth certificate and they were never married and i dont need him to love me or anything like that thats not what i expect at all i just want to meet him tell him who i turned out to be that kind of thing if he wants to be friends or be my dad for real then great if not then great it doesnt matter i just want to have a chance to talk to him

if i were you i would cook her dinner then sit down and have a long talk about the future then say “how would you feel if i moved out sometime soon?” this will get her to give u a better answer then just coming out and saying it

hey you can talk to her she probley really wants someone to tell her shes gonna be okay and that someone loves her i have alot of friends who used to do the same thing all that needs to be done is she needs to know she has someone to talk to and right now shes not getting that but u do need to do something because cutting escilates.