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• so my boyfriend says im fat and ugly and wich really makes me feel bad but am i?
  

  Nobody ever deserves to be treated like that. He’s a disgusting person and he is emotionally bullying you. I agree with the others, dont meet him and give him any opportunity to talk you round. You have to stay strong, this man is a weak coward, hes not worth your time. I mean, the longer you stay with him, the worse his behaviour will get.
  
  oh, and dont believe a word he says, your not ugly at all! even if you were, its still never an excuse.
  
  best of luck
  xxx
  - written 6 years ago

• i love this girl named Kelsey, and she loves me, but i know this is a weird question, we don’t meet.
  

  she probs is jst scared of u growing up etc. (ur mum i mean) dont hold it against her. she does sound like a right pain though lol! so yh, do what “Love is only a name” says. but make sure someone is with you when you first meet her. but if u do carry on with your relationship, your parents are gonna have to be told t some point. Maybe see how its developed over a few months. Your mother might atke you more seriously when you’ve been properly dating for a couple of months.
  - written 6 years ago

• i love this girl named Kelsey, and she loves me, but i know this is a weird question, we don’t meet.
  

  y do u care what ur parents think? just tell them the truth. i mean, what reason do they have to get angry? it might be abit embarassing at first, but itll be worth it; no more secrets! maybe they would be able to give you a lift to see her. plus, you can make sure shes not a 64yr old german perv named gunther, or something. oh, and btw ur not in love, ur onli 13 and u havnt even met yet. so yh dont b too dissapointed if shes not what you expected.
  
  good luck.
  - written 6 years ago

• Im 21 and feel I have reached a point where I cant carry on!
  

  u have to find a way of motivating yourself.
  
  think of something positive that you would most want to do and do it.
  
  if you cant then maybe you could talk to a family member. who do you feel most comfortable with???
  
  or maybe you could think about what hobbies you used to enjoy. or you favourite lessons at school. you could try joining an evening class or just do it in your spare time. i’ve taken up drawing again, and im starting a drama group. its kind of hard when you first start but after that it makes u feel heaps better.
  
  you should literally say to yourself that things are going to get better, if you make a positive decision then things will gradually start to improve…
  
  hope this helps
  xx
  - written 6 years ago

• i just created something…
  

  …confused
  - written 6 years ago

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