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• i just found out my boyfriend of 2 years has been looking at porn with teen girls.
  

  I guess some people have different opinions on this matter, but I really think that the majority of guys watch porn. It’s not like some serious event in our lives, we just do it because we enjoy it. You have to remember that men and women are very different… men tend to be more visual / physical while women are more spiritual / emotional. A girl might think that a guy watching porn is terrible because he must be emotionally involved to enjoy it, but that’s not the case. Guys watch porn just because it looks good.
  
  Honestly, it is not a big deal to us… I’m sure your boyfriend loves you and appreciates you and your body. It has nothing to do with that. It’s just when you are not around and he wants to see something visually stimulating, then he does that. He probably thought there was no harm in it. And in my opinion, there is no harm in it.
  
  But as others have suggested, if you are truly uncomfortable with it then you need to express this to him and if he respects your opinion then he will stop looking at porn. But the reason would be to prove that he respects your opinion, not that he respects you and your body. Because I’m sure he already does that.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• my girlfriend was kissed by a guy at the bar, she kissed back.
  

  I’m glad that everything appears to be going well, now. Good luck and stay strong. Just keep in mind that everyone makes mistakes sometimes. :)
  
  It sounds like she is genuinely sorry. Good luck, bud.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• Assalamu alaikum my name is UmarHamza please iam
  

  Sorry.. this site is for advice only. I really feel bad for you, but you will have to find some other way to get a laptop.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• i think im inlove with my friends boyfriend…they
  

  Please don’t be offended but accept this as my opinion: I think it’s kinda low to stab your friend in the back like that and take her boyfriend from her. In my opinion, you should wait it out. Don’t try to get them to break up or something. Just wait and see what happens… and if they break up, then maybe some time down the road you can talk to him and maybe think about dating him. But even then I would ask your friend if it’s okay with her… friends are just way more important than boyfriends. And you shouldn’t ruin your friendship over this guy.
  
  Good luck with everything.
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

• my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly a year now and i just recently found out that he has been cheating on me with his EX!
  

  I’m confused. You’re the same person who just said that some guy who you like but you’re not actually with has been abusive and controlling and stopping you from talking to guys, etc…. but in this post you’re talking about a “boyfriend” who you’ve been with for a year and how he’s cheating on you. Is this “guy who you are not with” and this “boyfriend” the same person? And if so, you already agreed in the last post that you should get rid of him. So why are you questioning this again? ESPECIALLY with the added element that he has been cheating on you.
  
  Or is this “boyfriend” a different person? And if so, then I am very confused. Please clarify.
  
  P.S. I hope you are not just making things up because that ruins the whole point of this website. :\
  - written 2 years, 6 months ago

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