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True…it’s weird that I find it so hard to tell her this. She’s wanted me in her limo since we were in middle school…but you guys are right. If she doesn’t want my date in the limo, how can I go without him? And if she does let us both in the limo, then I still don’t know whether to go into it with her…

Girls can be like that. We get confused on what we want. She probably doesn’t know if the make out session was good or not. Just wait it out, and really try to talk to her again. But don’t ask her about going out again. Be direct. Ask her what’s wrong, and be concerned.

‘Just friends’ is definitely a danger zone. It depends on the person you love. If you love them a lot, but they don’t love you back, you are just going to have to settle with the ‘just friends’. But if that’s not the case, then seriously. GO GET ‘EM! (also rent the movie ‘JUST FRIENDS’. hilarious, but it might help.

Long term relationships may be hard, but it isn’t the end of the world. See if she is willing to participate in the long distance relationship. The key question to ask is: Does she really want to continue a relationship if it is long distance? Because no matter what, its going to be that way. But if she says yes, than comes the easy part. Determination. If she really loves him, or him to her, then they will make it work. Call eachother, see eachother after school…there are a myriad of things they can do. But they can’t just sit around and complain, because that will definitely lead to a break up.