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• homecoming sucks when you don’t have a lady to go with and anybody around to hang out with who’s not going either. posted (2 years) ago
  it’s really pretty lonely. i feel like i got no friends. i mean i got like 2 or 3, but i ne…

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• i want to set myself on fire.
  

  If she won’t forgive you, that’s her problem. If u had the intent to apologize and have apologized and have genuinely tried to compensate for it then you did the right thing. Fact is: at the end of the day you gotta stick up for yourself too. What about your pain? Does she care? If she doesn’t then you don’t need a partner who will not reciprocate the level of feelings you have for her. You have worth too and you need to find somebody who recognizes and respects your worth. Relationships go two-ways.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• i want to set myself on fire.
  

  I’m reading this and I feel for you, but I’m a little confused. I think you gotta come to terms with whatever has happened in this relationship with you and this girl. What’s happened happened. We can’t change it. If she’s in pain from what’s happened between you two you can make her feel better and apologize. I know how hard it is to feel rejected and hurt by a girl who just doesn’t want you –it sucks big donkey balls. But if it didn’t work out then it wasn’t meant to be, and you got to move on. Wounds you’ve made on each other can be healed. There’s so many other women out there who you could be compatible with. Out of the 3 some odd billion women in the world, there are many who could be compatible with you.
  
  I really wish you the best. Everybody’s life is valuable and worth living. I’ve had thoughts of taking my own life too. Don’t lose hope.
  - written 1 year, 9 months ago

• gf help ..anyone?
  

  Hey man, I really feel for you and all you must be going through…with that in mind, I really think you should let her go…rather, be the man and break it off with her. I know you say you do love her, but it could be possible that you just are idealizing her and putting her on this pedestal that she doesn’t deserve to be on. Maybe you just are in love with the person you wish/imagine her to be. You need to stick up for yourself, dude. You sound like a real down-to-earth caring guy. And I know I may be jumping to conclusions as I might not know the whole story, but just really think about YOU. Are you receiving as much love as you give? Shouldn’t she care about you too? Just try and really honestly and rationally sit down and think and evaluate your relationship with her. Sort out your thoughts. I hope all goes well, man.
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago

• homecoming sucks when you don’t have a lady to go with and anybody around to hang out with who’s not going either.
  

  thanks for the advice pretender and rekaru…it means a lot to me.
  - written 2 years ago

• I really want to be dead.
  

  Hey, to the poster: how have you been doing? Just know that me and the other people here all wish the best for you and want you to get through this. And you will too. Keep on keepin’ on. Hope you’re feeling better.
  - written 2 years, 2 months ago

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