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The first thing is that both of you must want to reconcile your differences. You cannot make him want to do something he does not want to do because eventually he’ll go back to how he was.
Ask him if he wants to save the relationship. You may not like the answer if it’s not what you want to hear, but speaking as someone who has been divorced when they didn’t want to, I am glad for it now as I can lead the life I want to with someone who shares my ideas of what a partnership is.
If you want to talk this through I am happy to.

Hi. You have to change your thinking if you want to attract positive things into your life. Start with making a list of anything positive in your life and be grateful for it. For example, if you’re healthy, have perfect eye sight, can hear, talk, read, write, access the internet and therefore millions of people around the world, have food, water, a home, friends, family etc.
Then you need to focus on what you want. Write out how you want your life to be and every time you feel negative about how life is now, read how you want it to be and keep focused on and faith in the fact that you can have that life. Spend quiet time visualizing this life in your mind. Try to feel it in your body, how great it feels when you live in the home you want, do the work you want etc.

Often when someone does or says something that strikes us at our very core, it is a reflection of something we need to deal with in ourselves. It’s not always obvious or straightforward but can usually be found if you give yourself time and space and ask the question of yourself ‘why did this offend me so much?’
When I was much younger I would always think it was the other person, but as I’ve gotten older, had more of the experiences and taken the time to ask the question of myself, be still and open up to receive the answer, I’ve found more often than not that it was a trigger to something in my past that didn’t sit well with me. Once recognized I would then forgive myself and the other person, thanking them (in meditation rather than in person) and let it go.
I’ve generally been able to feel comfortable with the person again after that.

Most people will never feel like they can’t go on, but there comes a point for a lot of people where ‘checking out’ seems the only option left. It’s not. I’ve been in the depths of despair and thought there was no point in going on, but I found reasons to stay and pick myself up and move forward. One step at a time.
There are people here and probably people around you, who are willing to talk and more importantly listen and actually hear what you need to share about your situation.
You are not alone. You have a choice. Stay and find the solutions so you can become the person you were always meant to be.

This really depends on your attitude to life and yourself. How young you look is often a reflection of how you feel about yourself, or what’s going on inside.
View it like an Iceburg. Only a small percentage is above the water line, with the greater part below the surface. We’re just the same. What we see physically is a representation of what’s going on beneath the surface. The thoughts we have about ourselves. Constant negative thoughts manifest exactly what we don’t want. Constant positive thoughts give us what we do want. The latter is harder for most of us to do, but it does work.
Obviously there are also the ‘physical’ health aspects to consider too such as what you eat, how much you drink etc. and whether or not you take care of yourself physically.

The answer to this always depends on the people involved, their level of maturity being a key factor.
When I was 13 I dated a 16 year old and when I was 16 I dated a 13 year old.
Only the two of you know if it is the right thing for you.