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• I’m a fat, ugly, attention seeking whore. posted (5 years, 10 months) ago
  It’s no wonder my parents hate me. They are just trying to stamp it out of me. I understand th…

• I know it’s not exactly bullying but i didn’t like it. posted (5 years, 10 months) ago
  Today a girl who i am kind of friends with came up to me. She is generally intimidating but i kinda …

• PLEASE everybody i need attention. posted (5 years, 11 months) ago
  Please shout me to ask if i am okay.…

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• What is the perfect drink?
  

  Bottl’o ole janx spirit
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• I’m a fat, ugly, attention seeking whore.
  

  Okay… Lily, of you think parents never really hate their children, you have obviously never met my parents. They hate me so much they can’t bear to even be in the same room as me.
  Cookies and cream.
  1) I am 140 pounds and 5″6. Yes that is fat. And you all know it.
  2) I am ugly on the inside and outside. I am so disgusting on the outside that other people feel sick when they look at me. And you telling me that I am not that ugly isn’t going to help. You don’t even know what I look like, so how can you talk? Why do you pretend to know who I am? You don’t.
  3) You are all only giving me attention because you know I want it. I just want somebody to care.
  4) Again cookies, you DON’T know me, or squat about my life. Alright? You have never met my parents so stop pretending you know them. And are you saying I am badly behaved? I am good at home and I always have been. My parents hate me because I am fat and ugly so DON’T say it is my fault.
  
  Thank you everybody who answered on this post, you all helped. You didn’t pretend to know me like SOMEBODY here did, and that is why you helped.
  Thank you again :)
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• Hi everybody.
  

  It sounds to me like she is using you to make her feel better about herself.
  When you told her about the cosmetic problems with your house, she could probably relate very well to that. However, by acting like she was so much better and would never have these problems, she was just trying to make herself feel better.
  
  I would say that she is a very insecure person. Anything that you do, she is going to try and turn around to make herself look better. Maybe she feels that she is screwing up her life. So by making yours seem bad, she is trying to reassure herself that somebody else has made a bigger mistake than she has.
  
  And she is attention seeking. At first, when you were getting to know her, she had your undivided attention. But now, she feels that it is beginning to grow less. Maybe she feels that she is losing you. So she is trying to suck you in towards her, and manipulate you so you have to give her more and more attention.
  
  She is using your kids against you. She is using them so she won’t lose you, because she knows you do not want to hurt your kids. And maybe she feels that you are better than her, because you are more on track than she is. So by acting like her kids are better behaved than yours, she is making herself feel that she has done something right. Maybe she enjoys making you feel bad, because in that way, she feels good.
  
  I am in no way trying to justify what she is doing. I am just trying to give you a better understanding of why.
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• How do I handle this boy problem?
  

  That’s ok, i am glad to help.
  Let me know what happens, okay?
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• My name is Bill.
  

  There are charities that can help you. Some, or some organisations, that will support your work.
  Do you go to church? That is a great way to start fundraising, as there are many kind people there willing to support a good cause.
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

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