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• Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable. posted (3 weeks, 1 day) ago
  I don’t know how to handle things. It has been almost 2 months now and I miss him so much. …

• Do I move on or keep things the way that they are? posted (3 months, 1 week) ago
  I have been dating B for over 3 years, both of us have been married before and have kids. We keep…

• Well he finally did it. posted (9 months, 3 weeks) ago
  He dumped me, after 3 years he didn’t just dump me, he did it at our place of employment and …

• I just don’t know what to do. posted (10 months, 4 weeks) ago
  Kind of the same problem as last time I was here. I have been dating the same man for just about 3…

• Does anyone know where I could get good advice on a custody case? posted (1 year, 1 month) ago
  I have already talked to several lawyers, I am have been screwed and want to know where I can turn…

• Does anybody here get into playing the WII games? posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
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• Now I just found out that my long-term boy-friend who doesn’t want his children to know who I am is going away for a week with his kids to NY to posted (1 year, 2 months) ago
  I just found out that my long-term boy-friend who doesn’t want his children to know who I am …

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skies's Top (1) Replies by other users' votes

• (1 vote) Hello.
  

  I have been in the same position. My husband, whom I am finally seperated from drinks alot and uses drugs. He lied to me over and over. I was stupid enough to stay as long as I did. He used to call me all kinds of names, take money even if we didn’t have the extra, not come for days at a time and push me around from time to time. I stay with him for 10 years, mainly because when it started I was pregent and was scared of being a single mom. I waited three kids later before I realize that damage that it was doing not just to me but my wonderful boys too.
  
  Bottom line is that he needs help and you can’t help him. It has to be his choice and he needs to do this alone. He will try to convince you that he can change and won’t do those things anymore more but he will be lying and may not even realize that he is doing so. Your main concern should be for you and your child. My children are so much happier now and they do have a relationship with there father but they have even made comments to me about how they like the fact there is no arguing in our home anymore and that I am happy all the time. And my boys are all under 9 years old!
  
  Yes, its scary and hard to be a single mom. But it is worth it, I look at my babies everyday and thank god that I had the ability to get out while they were young, and hopefully save there future so they don’t grow up to be like him. Or think thats the way things should be.
  
  - written 1 year, 2 months ago – voted for by jschanne

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• Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable.
  

  Thats pretty much what I have been doing, ignoring him. I tried to go on a date. That didn’t workout, I just wanted to be with him. Its not like I am young, so I know what I am talking about.
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

• Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable.
  

  thats what I have been doing for the last 2 months and its not working. I am up one min down the next. I can’t do my job, I just want to stay in my bed all day
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

• Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable.
  

  ha ha, this is serious, at least to me
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

• Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable.
  

  I am willing to hear ideas… Please tell me your thoughts
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

• Well, my boyfriend and I finally broke it off and I am so miserable.
  

  I hear ya, it should be that cut and dry. I wish to god it were. He seems to think that we need to be apart. I don’t get it. He even cry lastnight when he tried to talk to me. I don’t get guys. I just know that I am tierd of being hurt and he is the only one I want. I don’t know how to fix this…….. How can I let him know how much I need him without scaring him?
  - written 3 weeks, 1 day ago

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