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I guess my problem is that I won’t be allowed to have a relationship with his kids or ex-wife. Won’t be able to kept things at his house. I never cared before but now that he allow this woman to do what I couldn’t am I fooling myself if I think I will be able to handle that?

Thats pretty much what I have been doing, ignoring him. I tried to go on a date. That didn’t workout, I just wanted to be with him. Its not like I am young, so I know what I am talking about.

thats what I have been doing for the last 2 months and its not working. I am up one min down the next. I can’t do my job, I just want to stay in my bed all day

ha ha, this is serious, at least to me

I am willing to hear ideas… Please tell me your thoughts

I hear ya, it should be that cut and dry. I wish to god it were. He seems to think that we need to be apart. I don’t get it. He even cry lastnight when he tried to talk to me. I don’t get guys. I just know that I am tierd of being hurt and he is the only one I want. I don’t know how to fix this…….. How can I let him know how much I need him without scaring him?

And how long have you known him?

Wow, is he your real brother or step brother? And how long have you known him?

Will do!

I was best friends with my ex-husband before we ever got married. I ment him when I was 5. At first I was the one that tried to remain best friends and he nailed me to the wall. It would be really nice if it worked that way but most of the time it doesn’t. After time of being a part you probily could remain friends, best friends probily not. That was the part of him I didn’t want to lose but now as time has past it is very rare that I ever think about him at all. You need to do whats best for you because if you stay now it will just be harder later and its not going to work.

You guys are right, its just not easy. I have been married and boy was that relationship a rough one. I really didn’t think I would find someone as good as B but I guess I really don’t have him. Thanks for the input.

Maybe, but I believe he is the right one for me, I am just not the right one for him.

The CTS is really a pleasure to drive. They didn’t a wonderful job. There definately is more space and is extremly comfortable. The ride is what you expect it to be when you think of the name Cadillac. I sell Honda, Hyundai, Chevy, Cadillac and used cars. I drive the BMW’s, Mercedes Audi’s etc, and to be honest would not buy a 2007 CTS or older. It would have to be at least the 08. It would be worth your time to find your nearest dealer and test drive one.

I sell cars. I personally think the CTS is the bank for the buck. They did wonders with that car in 08. Let me know what you decide.

I am in the same positon kinda. I am dating a man that I need to break it off with because I know it won’t be more then what it is right now. I don’t know how to do that because I love him. I don’t think you ever get over or forget a love like that but I do believe you learn from it. Hold on to the memories.