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That is a terrible thing to try dealing with. He was an ex so of course it’s going to be sad for you to deal with. Especially since you could have talked to him and the way you had to find out about it. Sad. Your boyfriend sounds like he might be jealous. Very possible even though your ex has passed away. He may see that you’re sad and take it the wrong way. Could be his way of trying to deal with it. Death is a very hard thing to console others about. Just hang in there and try patching things up with your current boyfriend. Be thankful you got to see your ex one last time.

The situation kind of sounds messed up. Maybe if you try talking to him openly he might open up about what he said to you. Just don’t be too surprised if he ignores you or denies it. People do that at times. Emotions aren’t always easy to admit even if they are whispered. He may just want to deny it since he is your ex.

She is probably just grieving the only way she knows how. What’s done is done. It’s the past. You divorced her, left her, and married someone else. That pretty much tells her you are never coming back. Might be pointless to even try being her friend since that could give her even a tiny bit of hope that you will go back to her. If it’s hurting you that much go talk to her and let her know why you left her. Otherwise, just let her try dealing with the pain.

Well, I have all of my parents furniture. My sister gave it to me when they died. I would be disowned and it would make me cry to sell their furniture because it’s priceless. Yes, I know that it’s better than being evicted, but still, it’s just not possible to do that. No, I wasn’t fired. They understood about my uncontrollable migraines. Can’t really be helped. I got a new and better paying job that has health insurance, but I don’t start until Monday. This is technically my vacation week. Only problem is that in the last 2 months I couldn’t work about 3 weeks due to my incredibly painful migraines that sent me to the hospital. Definitely wasn’t fired, just went for a better life. Only problem is I’m seriously struggling right now. I responded to the eviction and hopefully will get an extension and some understanding. Thanks.

It’s best to be honest with them. Of course it’ll be tough, but in time they might warm up to the idea of you being with her. If they see that you’re willing and trying to be open and honest with them they may be willing to deal with it easier. Go slow, don’t just blurt it out to them. Allow everything to sink in. Give them time as well.

You might not have the right drives for the game. Even though the computer downloads it you might not have all the stuff on your computer required to run it. Or it could be too slow. I’m not 100% sure. I’m not an expert. Just speaking through experience on this problem.

That can be tough. You never know what the reaction is going to be. Just sit them down and be honest. Tell them how it is and why. Might be surprised how they actually handle it if you’re honest and up front about it.

Well, I can slightly identify with your situation. I’m about to be evicted due to inability to pay my rent, which isn’t like me at all. Can only imagine it being harder with a child. I came on here for help as well because I couldn’t find help anywhere else. My advice would be if you have debts that you’re struggling to pay off, then call a debt consolidation place. Usually they will help you figure out how to lower your monthly payments for a small fee. It does work. Also, for power issues you can call the power company and ask them what the lowest amount is you can pay a month to keep it on. Tell them you have a child. You never know. Sometimes it’s really hard, but you just never know until you call around. Just try lowering some of your monthly bills. Also try talking with your mom about the situation. She might be more understanding if you show her you really are trying.