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• Vanishing ! posted (5 months, 3 weeks) ago
  A heart and two drops of blood This was the message i sent to god Lemon trees and freshness in t…

• Lost due to circumstances ? posted (7 months) ago
  Hi all , i’m back again , I hope you are all doing fine . Recently things are not going so …

• Help in Denmark.. posted (1 year) ago
  Hi all , My cousin is planning to visit Denmark at the end of this month , will you recommend him a…

• I think I’m in love! posted (1 year) ago
  First I would like to apologize for not being around lately and I have missed you all guys :) 4 …

• Well here is the situation & I need your explanation guys . posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  I just got a new job at a multinational company it was all stressful at the beginning & I fina…

• I need your Hugs & prayers :( posted (1 year, 4 months) ago
  I just want to cover myself up to feel safe then sleep . Please god get me out of this , make my dr…

• I’m feeling small posted (1 year, 5 months) ago
  About an hour ago I heard that brokenwings is in bad condition & can’t stop crying since…

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nextstar's Top (5) Replies by other users' votes

• (2 votes) CLOSED is starting to look weird…
  

  I have been brought up in a Muslim family & in a society which its majority are Muslims , I used to hate what people tell me to do & act just because am a girl & boys have more privileges than girls(that is what I thought) so I started my journey as an agnostic & It took me 3 years to realize that good really exists then I spent 2 years looking for the right religion for me & I found it .
  
  I read a lot about many religions & history ,I practiced many religions specially Christianity & Buddhism ,& I realized all religions have the same core & the same principals but people influence their faith by their cultures so there is a big confusion between religions & cultures .I decided to read the Quran for the last time &have my say about it & I found out that all the things I hated about Islam is not true , god didn’t tell us to do that , it was just from the Arabic culture where the Islam has been found in the first place .
  
  I’m a believer now & Muslim ,I have a great relationship with god now. I have learned many things through my journey & the most important lessons are :
  
  1-all religions are the same so I respect all believe ,religions & ideas .
  
  2-if I you want to look for the truth , you have to look for it by yourself & find it by yourself.
  
  3-Most religious men are false , they have no real faith , they only take religion as a job or a way to gain respect from others.
  
  4-Always look at the big picture .
  
  5-You don’t have to figure out everything at once .
  
  6-each religion or believe has its own flavor so try to enjoy each one on its own way because they all lead to god .
  
  7-there is no one right religion for all the people but there is a right religion for you including being non religion because it is also a way of life .
  
  8-it doesn’t matter to be a believer or not but what really matters is to reach your shore & decide your faith .
  
  9-I respect & like all the people regardless their believes , colors , religions , nationalities , & sex as long as they don’t try to push me on believing anything or not hurt others.
  
  Sorry for my long reply , hope I said enough . I would love to answer any question & talk with you about anything :)
  
  - written 1 year, 5 months ago – voted for by babacup, molotok

• (2 votes) So I was raped again.
  

  I have been molested when I was a child & didn’t say anything about it till now , I met my molesters last year & I shoke their hands & acted as nothing happened, I even forgive them but I heard a week ago that one of them is abusing his wife physically & I got so angry about his wife , I even went to his father & told him “if your son won’t stop abusing his wife I will help her to leave him” but guess what she did !! she refused my help & kept defending him infront of me .. I can’t explain why we get so negative sometimes .
  
  PLease report him or just leave him , I know that everytime he rapes you , you lose a part of yourself till you lost a big part of yourself so you feel numb about it but you posted this post for help because you feel there is something wrong & you wanna change it so please try to, get yourself out of this please I know how do you feel . please stop this torture . I know that you have a big wound in your soul & you are struggling everyday to cover it so please try to heal this wound ,it will hurt in the beginning but you can servive again & full in love & get married , believe me .
  
  I’m ok now because I didn’t let what happend to me controlling me because i know it wasn’t my fault & I was so young to do anything about it to stop that molestion I didn’t even know what they were doing to me, it hurts me from time to time but I’m so sure that it is not my fault so i’m ok .
  
  - written 1 year, 10 months ago – voted for by 'Bell, Silverwings

• (1 vote) Business Query,
  

  I think you better work in a company first for while to gain more experience about how to run a business and to know requirments that might be needed & how to do it .
  
  - written 3 months ago – voted for by chunkymove

• (1 vote) I’m feeling down again.
  

  If i were you i would put on nice outfet , look very attractive then go to a nice place and have fun .
  
  You don’t need to be with company to have fun. I fight with my mum all the time too but recently i tried to ignore her actions and don’t talk back to her or even dehend myself . i just let her talk then leave . i feel better now & she started to give up on me :D
  
  - written 5 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by sharondianetimbe

• (1 vote) I’ve been lying to myself.I’ve read many
  

  forget about the books , i think you have read enough , set your goals then figure out ways to achieve them then start working on achieving them NOW.
  
  - written 9 months, 3 weeks ago – voted for by chunkymove

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• Irish - English basics:
  

  i’m confused here , i think irish people speak English aren’t they ?
  - written 3 weeks, 6 days ago

• Vanishing !
  

  [quote Anonymous]nextstar rocks. period :)[/quote]
  
  hehe , i love your comment :) I’m glad that i rock :D
  
  
  [quote webjeff200]I sorry this is so late, I been in college and have not had the time to logon here in about 5 months. Alot of things is going on with me right now but God is able.
  
  Now I hope things are going well with now, I will keep you in my prays.[/quote]
  
  thank you & i hope everything goes well with you my friend ;)
  - written 1 month ago

• Luck of the Irish here,
  

  hope you had fun :)
  - written 1 month, 4 weeks ago

• Resolved.
  

  I would choose Canada
  - written 2 months ago

• Vanishing !
  

  [quote dorky]that is so touching. I’m actually crying right now[/quote]
  
  don’t cry please
  - written 2 months ago

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