Just be honest. This happened to me and I was too scared to ask so finally my sister just told him for me.
He might be embarassed to talk about it but he’s not going to say no. The other girls were right - maybe he can give you the money and you can go with a friend, or he can wait for you in the “man chair” while you work with a sales lady. - written 1 year, 5 months ago
Take the train from London to Scotland, get off at Edinburgh station. You’ll find yourself right in the middle of a giant garden looking out at the old castle. The most beautiful old city. Also give Bath a try if you have time. - written 1 year, 5 months ago
I think Stevevoogh has something really important to consider. In order for this to work, big, massive changes would have to take place. Those events could change both of you forever.
It’s easy for the mind to nurture very intense feelings all on its own. You say you have no formal communication, which says to me that because you are wanting so badly for this to happen, you are no longer looking at the reality of the situation. He is not communicating with you, you just have a ‘feeling’ that you will see him, but you always want to see him. You are ascribing meaning to something that isn’t really there. He attended the installation ceremony for the new parish priest because that’s part of his job. Believe me.
I’m not trying to be mean, I’ve just been through it. I created a story for myself that I couldn’t believe wouldn’t come true, and everyone got hurt. - written 1 year, 5 months ago