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Hey you… I have not talked to you in a long time, how are things going?

Lol, yeah there are a lot of those about :P.
Yup, that was pretty much what I was doing too! :( I’d get SO much more sleep if I could only stay off of this place!

Anyway, clearly we’re both insane, since we’re awake at 2:30 in the morning!

:) Define “sane”! lol. Its cool to meet you…. but a little freaky… what if I know you in real life :O lol

Enjoy you’re lai! LOL

Anon will make it someday; either above or below ground is his choice. Trying to make his race/location/past rule his present - sad.
The weather looks a little wet until next week for you, but I don’t think that is a standing issue for you, right? Enjoy!

Colorado Springs. Don’t you just love today’s youth LOL

Thanks for the positive comments! :)

hi I am the one who was talking about why women dont need to wear revealing clothes. If you want to continue our conversation you can e mail me at mercyministryoutreach at hotmail dot com

lmao. I wish! I haven’t. I’m on the east coast and so far I haven’t had any opportunities to drive yet. Possibly tomorrow morning going to the gym!

yeah i’m on

hey! what’s up?

Dizzy!!! :-) How are ya?

well… that’s not necessarily true. It depends on the situation. If it’s something I haven’t learned or tried before I usually welcome it with open arms, unless it somehow isn’t “secure.” So usually dangerous things I try to avoid lol.

Still curious what you think of my driving situation..let me know next time you’re on. :)

ok… will do! Man… I haven’t been this tired in years… I can hardly keep my eyes open… good night! and thanks again.. don’t forget what you were going to say… :) Night!

making sense so far…. I’m waiting in suspense… man I really want to stay up for this but my eyes are getting heavy… :)

Will you be on tomorrow night? If so, I will try to come on to finish up this convo… In the mean time… if you want to, please finish up what you were typing. Everything you’ve said so far I can relate to, and deep down inside, I’m hoping it’s the answer I’ve been looking for!

thank you SO much for your help! :) Good night!

waiting… impatiently!

then somehow relate that to my NOT driving!

I think somewhere along the lines of “well how could you not like it if you really haven’t experienced it fully?” Something like that… right?

D**N YOU! I was going to type this whole explanation then mid-way through I realized where you’re going with this…

Nope… why?

So, you haven’t really ever driven around the city in a standard then?

I’ve driven a stick before… a couple times… once in a parking lot when i was first learning to drive when I was 16… never touched a car for a while after that too… then again sometime last year in my exes car… I started doing it, but he kept going “AHH!” everytime I messed up.. that car was his baby… it was pretty funny.

REALLY… Automatic??? But you’ve never driven a stick… So, how do you know?

automatic… definitely! Can’t bother with the shifting and such… but it would be nice to know how to drive a stick.

What do you feel is a better car for driving in the city, a 5 speed or automatic transmission?

Well when forming opinions… it’s not that I toss my own aside… I just like hearing other’s opinions and somehow tie in the ones I agree with or if I feel they have come to a better conclusion that my own then I will take a new opinion… I’m very flexible in that sense..

If my current opinion of myself were to be corrected, I think it could possibly help me to get to where I need to be… yes… “out of this rut?” But I’m not sure if it will… would definitely be nice!! but then maybe it wouldn’t… I see all these quotes and uplifting phrases and I still can’t change… I do think I need to re-condition my brain.

Did I answer that correctly?

well.. I know I don’t always feel sure of myself… so I guess the latter. I find myself constantly second guessing MYSELF! hehe.. sometimes I have debates in my head. Sometimes I like others opinions to help me form my own… but don’t get me wrong… I sometimes I have very strong opinions and when I think I’m right… I know I’m right…let’s just say that… hehe

But some people I choose not to have those opinions with… but online it’s usually easier. Below I felt like I was about to start WWIII all over makeup tips! One of the people started getting to me because she kept contradicting everything I would say… it was funny actually..

read this post…
http://help.com/post/140341-makeup-he…

oh no.. I know you do… Let me think about this for a sec..

I think that’s my entire opinion… I don’t think I really have much other than it was nice of her to try to help me…now you have me thinking I should be thinking more.

As for my own opinions… maybe it has something to do with me being an indecisive person… or I second guess my own judgement at times.. I’m not always sure of myself.

Man I’m slow! haha… there’s my opinion of myself! She seems nice. I appreciate her rushing to help me at my littlest cry for help… all I said was that I was unhappy and she immediately shouted me asking what was wrong. She didn’t have to do that. She seems similar to me, where I try to relate my own experiences to other people when trying to help them…

I have NO idea what Fill City is…

But speaking of opinions.. I am the QUEEN of getting everyone’s opinion. Sometimes I actually find it hard to make my own decisions because I have to hear other opinions, gather data, evaluate it all, then form my own conclusions…

AH!! you just proved a point again!

You just made me realize that maybe I actually AM confident when this whole time I think I am not! This is scaring me!

I still disagree though with the feeling thing just a little… I think I have a mix of both. I am naturally intuitive AND a lot of it is also based on logic… ugh… that just reminded me of a comment my first ex made when he broke up with me over the phone. He complained about how crappy he felt for breaking up with me over the phone instead of in person and I said “does it really matter? the fact still remains that you’re breaking up with me!” Then he said “see this is why I love you! you’re so logical!” Talk about mixed communication! haha

hmmm… it depends… I don’t mind asking for help sometimes… but more often than not, I usually don’t ask for the help because I do like figuring stuff out… with my family and friends I’m also worried about judgement..

A different perspective would be awesome though…if I can convince myself then it will work.. :)

OMG…that’s nuts! Ok so I agree with most of it, except I am very intuitive with other people’s feelings, and I’m not so arrogant…or confident for that matter. Also I don’t have that hard of a time expressing myself, except for the fact that I often don’t for fear of judgement. There were some other things that weren’t “me” but that’s to be expected.

I’m definitely more INTJ, with a little tiny bit INTP… :)

Ok keep going! This is intriguing!

LMAO! I guess you ARE right! haha…

Yes, I agree with you 100%!!! I strategically plan and place everything in my mind ahead of time. If it doesn’t make sense there… it never makes sense, and I won’t do it. But, I’m also easy to convince once I have been shown a new way of thinking or taught a new idea, etc… I keep my mind open to options most of the time.

If I did in fact see driving from a different perspective, I do believe I wouldn’t be struggling with it as much as I am.

So do you think you can help me??

I’m not quite sure… what do you mean exactly?

I added you, thanks. Did you get asked to add me back?

Thanks for the offer. I appreciate it. My email is my username at gmail.com. If you use Google talk, AIM, MSN, or Yahoo, tell me what your name is, and I’ll get back to you.

I replied back…and I don’t know what that we’re talking about…lol. it just said in your profile that i was granted the ability to email you…lol.

you’ve totally got it now! S A G G E Z Z A…what does that spell? SAGGEZZA!!! wooo yea!

i just emailed you…i noticed i have the ability to do that…

i would consider that quote my motto right now actually. =) if only i could find the source tho to attribute it… ” Others can play a part in making you happy, but only you can make yourself sad.” is my fav of your quotes. did you write them? because those are some wise words.

i REALLY like your profile picture.

Sure = )

I have actually, well sort of… a beachy place anyway. The holidays just ended here, and in those holidays I visited and stayed at a place called Byron bay twice, its great. I haven’t! I really should shouldn’t I O___O

Thanks,I will definitely check it out.I thought you were going to say thats the type of person that’s free from errozenous zones.:)Its great meeting you!

Hello!just read your reply to jackie.WOW,I’m what u described too.,thought i was alone,weird,What does it mean?I would really like to know.shout me anytime.,we can be friends if u like.Kim

No thank you baby! I get so much enjoyment out of our little talks please believe Im smiling all while Im typing( not to mention the enjoyable mind foreplay if you will that you give) oh on that note you are the best baby damn near need a smoke and I dont smoke ooooh your good!!!!!!!!!!