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You are absolutly right hon, I used to feel jelous and possesive and very insecure, but my bf is so chilled out and relaxed that I don’t get like that with him, when you meet someone and it’s easy and flows thats when you know it is right, don’t put your all into it straight away get to know the girl before you give 100% see if there are sparks,

Give YOU some time honey, I know it hurts but the right girl when she does come along will never be able to hurt you, no matter what.

Exactly honey, I been there and am so grateful for what I learnt and what it taught me, you will get there. There was a time I thought I never would and I look back on it and it doesn’t hurt anymore

Just though I would check, glad you are ok. I know it sucks at first but having people to talk to helps, so shout me if you ever need to talk. Those down moments do become less and less and one day you will wake up and think wow I didn’t even think of her yesterday, :)

Hey Hope you are ok, and your weekend wasn’t too lonely and sad.

its finally is all over for certain now, i’m gutted

Still no contact from yesterday, but i did send her flowers

just spoke to my girlfriend she said she is confussed an needs time, so i’ll keep ya posted its a start

she hasn’t text yesterday an its killing me

this is the end of it

Its over sorry,

Thats all i want to do, but even when explaining before when we split up she says she understand but i don’t think she does. Before we left to go out on friday she said she wouldn’t leave me but she did

I can see that you really desperate….
What did she actually said to you?

Well, I had the same problem as you, But, all i did, i spoke with her, and let my feelings out to her and she did understand it. Now, i feel so relaxed, all she said is that i won’t ever leave you…..thats all i need to hear from her. Now, i feel so fine.
Just talk her man, Just think whats important you in secure feelin or the girl you love. Don’t lose yourself, or you will lose the girl.
Just speak with her…don’t give up u r love.

Hi again,…what happen? Did you talked to her.?

you will be ok, i sure ok it. do you have a chat address where we could speak

nope nothing at all… i have to see my midwife 2moz tho OoOoOo blood test EEEK!

thankyou!

so how your day been?? are you feeling better about yourself

yea hunny am back

u there amiex

not to good at this shout business prefer instant chat. lol

from essex, u

where are you from?

yea im here xx

so sorry been having trouble with my computer you still online

nd hi lol thanx for the very short shout xx

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@hotmail

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my email adress is (email removed)
i dont have msn but you can email me anytime u like lol xx

ajw306

@hotmail

well i got something
mine is ajw306

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yer i believe we can help each other as well

lol have you got msn, easier to chat on there

you still there

how old are you

21, thought i could relate

yer, my girlfriend just left me

oh i see

not sure how this works