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some people don’t live anywhere near a gay bar and others aren’t into that scene
think your being cynical

once when we go out together I feel relaxed enough to show affection towards him in public it’s the first contact I get all wound up about that even if I have gaydar it would get snarlrd up in the stress of the moment

when I asked the only guy out I could feel he woiuld be receptive only because we were both relaxed and receptive to each other so I felt safe enough to ask him but when I’m out I’m not as relaxed as I would be at home

how can I let other gays know then that I’m approachable and get results when I was younger and boyish I got hit on constantly by other men but that was then and I’m not as innocent anymore and don’t get hit on anymore

the only time I felt anything akin to gaydar was a man that came to my house and after talking for a few minutes asked him straight out if he was gay then we dated and came back to my place No other time did I ever get thqat feeling I first met.if that were the case I should have them for frequently then right but I haven’t

only once did I ever feel anything like gaydar think it’s a myth so if it’s real teachit to me ok

I want to know how to find and date other gay men in my town without going the bar club route how to spot them and subtlely inquire to find out if they’re just as interested in dating me as a gay man