I hate to bother you again, but I was wondering if you had gotten in touch with Advice25, because I’d just like to know that he didn’t die in a car crash or something else terrible, given the last time I spoke with him, it was kind of a concern—and then poof gone forever.
the things is though that i’m not completely sure of the situation and the fact that another guy just asked her out and now she avoids the guy like the plague
and we are really go friends and i don’t want that to happen to me if she doesn’t say yes
things are going pretty decently. i’m in my first year of dorm and the people here are amazing. i’m trying to figure out if knowing somebody for only a couple of weeks is too soon to ask them out. what do you think?
o.O Have you heard from Advice25 by any chance in the past month? He hasn’t been online, and I’m slightly worried that something bad might have happened to him. He went from being online all the time, to nothing—and you know his current state, I’m worried he’s up in a hospital somewhere or 6 ft under.
My intent was to cheer you up by pointing out things could be much worse & not at all meaning to “make you feel bad” for me or anyone else for that matter. Just saying “it could be much worse”. But hope it improves for you instead. Peace.
Thank you for a wonderful time! I love you all, it has just became difficult for me to stay with the site.
I have been a member for more than a year. I have had a lot of personal problems, but I have focused very much on engaging in other people’s problems. Maybe partly because it helps me forget my own stuff. I have only four posts (it could have been five), but I have 410 subscriptions and I made 1,045 comments and a lot of shouts. All of them have been made either because of a sincere wish to help, or simply to cheer somebody up.
But I see difficulties in that for the future. Some of you have my personal email. I have also opened my email to all on my friends’ list.
Feel free to write to me, because I love you!
I will stay on long enough to pick up email addresses from those who want to communicate.
JESS - it was SOOO creepy - I was going post to post trying to help/answer and my shouts werent working - then 2 people got online and started being REally hostile and aggressive - and began posting really disgusting bloody images and porn on every site - I thought it was just happening to me….I didnt want to give them the satisfaction of responding - so I tried to shout everyone — and my friggin shouts didnt work!!! I could see I had them in my box, but they wouldnt appear!! it SUCKed…hopefully those guys have stopped long ago….dont go back and look the images were REally disturbing…can you beLIEve people would spend so much time/energy just being hateful??? The saddest part - there were people with real concerns writing in, first time….really was awful….anyway - thx for writing!! seeya out there!!
HEY girl!! It’s Ell (I remember you from when LazyD was having a tough time….) I am having a bit of a problem - are you there? I want to ask you something…. thx….if I dont respond/get offline I’ll try again - I just came to Oz for about a week…diff time zone….okay - I hope you are there/showup!!cheers sister….el
Okay. As it turns out, I thought I’d give AIM Messenger a try. I’ve been getting hassled by friends and family. So, I’ve gone ahead an created an account. Now I have to add people. My SN is SGD0619, if you’d like to add me and be the first
(And, yes, I just had a blonde moment, too. I shouted to myself instead of you, initially.)
Yeah, I’ve followed a few of his threads. Didn’t really get the feeling that I wanted to contribute. Boy, that sounds really rude, doesn’t it? Again, I’ll have to blame the hour.
well i have to say i am a bit indebted to you, if you hadn’t of made that post about the shins i never would of heard of them. thank you they are awesome!
Oh same here, most of my friends are guys except my best friend Sarah and a few other old ones. But she’s basically just like me. Been best friends 20 years this fall :) Its wierd, but you can trust guys, at least in some sense, they are blunt and usually honest and you dont have to interpret everything they say and overanalyze (unless you’re dating them of course, in which case its a given to do so and stress about it 24/7 lol).
Does your crush know you’re into him? Sounsd like a good bet to me ;)
lol sooo understand. Though with me, if i feel any form of spark, I’m toast. Like, it doesnt matter how awful he is, I’ll go for it. It gets me into trouble a lot lol.
That Irish/Philipino guy sounds hot! Gotta love that tan… does he have an accent or is he Americanized?
Yeah, I can only take so much of women who are just friends before its like, okay, enough drama, get away from me. I can’t imagine trying to have a relationship with someone as emotionally rollercoasterish as I am. oh yikes. lol I pity them.
Jay MIGHT be my crush lol but don’t tell anyone!
Oh I agree, guys are usually just dense, women are manipulative and scary lol. If I did date women, I dont think I could date younger, it’d def. have to be a maturity at my level and stuff. I think the odds of finding a chick im compatable with (I have some insane criteria) to even consider dating is basically impossible, but I like to be open to the chance.
That is so random lol… philipino irish kid.. interesting, but hard to imagine. Is he hot? My secret crush aint such a secret right now lol.
sorry, having some severe connection problems here.
lol I understand, I have some.. how on earth do you put this in a classy way? bi tendencies? lol but I’m still straight I guess, I can’t stand to date women, waaaay to much estrogen in that equation for me ;) and I dont want an emotional connection/relationship with them that way, ya know?
I have no idea where to meet some lol just the same as with guys maybe… like through friends I guess?
Ok… I dont want to come across as creepy, and I dont normally do this ever, but you are so cute! every time I see your avatar it makes me smile, you face is just lit up. Its really refreshing. Sorry, had to tell you lol.
have a good day,
Finley