daisey1974's reply history at Help.com

I know you didn’t ask me, but i would be completely proud of the superhero guy. And i would do what i could to support and encourage him. And who cares about “macho”? Guys who are that way are usually stuck on themselves and complete a$$holes.

No need to apologize dear, everyone has something(s) about themselves they don’t like. While you can’t change them, maybe you can begin looking at them with a different perspective. They are what make you unique. You can work on changing mannerisms and things like that. Just figure out who you are.

Also, why not faith AND reason? Why must they be mutually exclusive? I don’t think they are.

Well, Lucifer thought he could do a better job than God. Therefore he fell, along with angels that sided with him against God. So if they have no free will, how do you figure this could happen. They must have free will. Otherwise there could have not been a war in heaven.

Awww honey, you are not alone. There are plenty of guys who feel the same way. While there are limited number of ways to alter how you look…as in exercise, new haircut, new clothes…etc. there are a lot of ways to change how you act. But, forget that for a second. Lets focus on what you do like about yourself, and im sure there are plenty of good points about you. And some of those “bad” things you don’t like about yourself, may not actually be real but imagined. Take an honest look inside yourself, and im sure that you’ll be able to spot the good.

I can see your train of thought, sorta. But, if angels didn’t have free will, then how do we explain what happened? Second, Satan doesn’t necessarily lie, but he twists the truth, why you think he’s called the father of lies? And yes i agree, there was and wasn’t a big bang.

Well sweetie, it seems that her home life was very messed up. Disorganized, weird, and she sounds like she had a lot of mental and emotional issues that probably were brought on by said home life and even enabled and nurtured by that home life. She probably wasn’t on medication for it, and if she was then it obviously wasn’t doing sh!t to help her. You seem very happy now in this new relationship! It sounds stable and very rewarding. On one hand, no it’s not wrong that you go back to all this and try to understand what happened. But on the other, it is sort of a disservice to your current girlfriend. But then again, she may understand your need to make sense of it. I for one don’t think it had anything to do with you.

That was extremely rude of her and i’d slowly get her out of you life. You need real friends who will listen when you need them and not tell you when you can or cannot break down.

Oh dear. That girl is obviously an attention whore and it was affecting you. You did the right thing by moving seats. The other boy is obviously jealous of you for whatever reason and trying to make trouble for you, and so far it sounds like it’s working. The teacher shouldn’t have gotten involved after you said you hated that boy, and it seems like that made it worse. You have the right not to like someone, and its honestly none of the teachers business. Why should the teachers be upset at you? All you did was try to remove yourself from a situation that was affecting your school work. Why are your parents upset all of a sudden? Do they not understand the situation? Did they get told an entirely different story and are believing that? You should sit down with your parents and maybe even the teachers, and calmly explain the whole thing. Really that’s all you can do is communicate to the best of your ability what’s going on. As for your medicine, may i ask what exactly its for? Yes, it may take a while for your body to adjust to it and start working, but i’d say if it doesn’t in a few weeks, then maybe switch back to what did work for you. Hope that helps sweetie.

Have you tried going into the control panel and deleting it from the programing file?

Hmm…sometimes that happens. But usually the answer is within us, but so subconscious that it takes a while to bring it out. Usually i watch sad movies or listen to music and it helps me cry it out, and then i start to piece by piece figure out the problem. Hope that helps sweetie. Or maybe you just need to talk it out.

Why do you feel funny about it? Did they understand why you were crying, and console you? Or did they not get it, and make you feel bad? Sweetie, you should never feel ashamed or bad about sharing your feelings with those around you, especially those who you count as your friends. If you need to talk or anything, i’m here.

Your friends are douche bags for putting you in that position. Your ex boyfriend may or may not change if you decide to give him another chance. Actually im inclined to say that he won’t. Sorry dear, but usually once a cheater always a cheater. Maybe you should take a break from all and any contact from him and/or your friends for a while and figure it out for yourself, without their input.

Ok…is there something you’d like to say, but you’re afraid to? Do you want help with something? Don’t be embarrassed or afraid dear, most of us here wont bite.

[quote chev.jame]Your body is yours. Your “erogenous zones” are extremely private, and anyone who doesn’t respect that shows two things: immaturity and lack of consideration. Men do not indulge in such behavior–that is the province of BOYS.

If the BOY you are dating doesn’t respect the boundaries you’ve set, it’s time to send that BOY packing and wait until you are ready to date a MAN.[/quote]

Amen