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i would like closure to find out where he is and whether he’s not going to just show up on my doorstep one day out of the blue. it would help me sleep at night a bit better knowing i’m not going to run into him one day.

oh god dude, i’m so sorry. but i don’t think you can get it back as you wrote over it and thunderbird doesn’t save a draft once it’s sent.
it would take a hacker genius or someone like that to be able to find it again and even then i don’t think they could do it.
i’m sorry i couldn’t be more helpful.
that feeling of loss is horrible, like a kick in the stomach.

this has happened to me a number of times, so I generally write important long documents out in Word, Notebook or Wordpad and then I save that as a document on my PC. then I just copy/paste the document into the email program. i don’t trust email programs and online text windows or journal websites etc.

I’m so sorry I wish i could help you. i am broke too at the moment.
I know what it’s like to be behind on your rent. where do you live? are there charities or shelters or government agencies that might be able to help you with a grant or some money that way?
rent can be very expensive. hopefully some nice person will help you - do you have any friends or family that could help?

I don’t know much about this sort of stuff but can you get an exchange or refund on the card? i’m not sure if it will work in your pc or not.
have you tried googling it?

I thought fasting was a good thing to do? i wasn’t expecting such concerned replies.

admittedly what I have read/researched says people who have diabetes probably shouldn’t fast, but it’s only for 24 hours, it’s not like I’m fasting for days and days at a time. and i realise that if you don’t eat for weeks at a time, you will die, that’s not what i am doing. these are short bursts of not eating.

why don’t I eat? basically some days I just feel like I can’t eat. i’m not hungry, the smell and look of food makes me feel sick so I drink juice or water.

i do tend to eat very well otherwise, and i don’t fast all the time, maybe once every 2 weeks.

hope that cleared it up a little more, perhaps I should have put in more details in my question.

all i hear about in australia on stupid infomercials is about Pro-Active but yes, as many people here have already suggested, birth control pills are very effective though they can have other side effects.

You could maybe do work from home. Telephone psychic, telephone counsellor, telephone help desk, online stuff, like the person above me said?

cool, thanks, that is good advice. i thought about doing that but i also thought there might be a way to do it online.
someone should invent a prisoner database :) haha

(that’s 99% not 99$)

dude, seriously, it happens to 99$ of women at some time or another. One time my jeans split and i was going commando and I was in the middle of a busy train station. horrifying.
knowing that everyone goes through it might help but laughing about it also helps alot.

Personally i don’t think it was anything YOU did. Maybe she did like you but then maybe she got scared off after being in a relationship. You didn’t scare her, but the prospect of another romance scared her.
Can you try to slowly be her friend again and then maybe if she wants to, then see where it might go?

it’s a horrible song! It gets in your head and sticks in there and wont go away.

Yes I have to make it clear, sorry, that he Physically abused me, as in hitting me/shoving me, pushing me, pushed me down the escalator once leaving me with scars etc. he didn’t sexually abuse me.
I WAS sexually abused but by my grandfather, not my dad.

This place is awesome. Thank you so much everyone for your help and advice. the support has been amazing. thankyou.

say someone hacked into YOUR computer. dude, this is a pretty serious problem. some of these b****s can be worrying. I would try to apologise or get yourself a bodyguard! either that or hold onto a copy of the conversation. you can even edit it to make it look better on your behalf!
it does sound kind of suspicious that it’s someone else’s MSN that she used. weird.

Oh absolutely. He is so beautiful it’s painful. he’s just gorgeous. and one of the most talented, intelligent actors of modern cinema. he’s incredible.