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• (1 vote) How do you find yourself?
  

  Just remember sometimes it has to get really dark before you can see the stars.
  
  take care, listen to peoples advice, trust your instinct. It’s obviously what you are doing now, as you have reached out to people and this sounds like your gut instinct telling you that you need to talk. I agree with some of the others get professional help, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. My brother went to Kosovo and had the same feelings you appear to be having. He didn’t want to speak to his family although we are all very close and instead chose to see a specialised counsellor and is much happier now but everybody is different and different things work for different people. And remember you don’t need to tell them everything there are some things in life that you just don’t want to think about let alone talk about, so don’t feel pressured. Divulge what you think will help you. thank you and good luck.
  
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago – voted for by Em*[iLy]

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• Would this make me a bad person?
  

  I think that if you’re having to ask, this shows that deep down you have your own doubts. follow your heart, he’s certainly not the only guy in the world. Try dating some others, if hes the one for you then let him make an effort to show you. Don’t make yourself available every time he calls, be “Busy busy busy”!! Good luck
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• i hate life i hate my mom.
  

  Firstly you are a normal child, and every child deserves to be loved and respected and listened to. If you are feeling this bad I think you need to talk to a person that you can trust, maybe a teacher at school or one of your friend’s parents. I don’t know how old you are but you shouldn’t have to feel like this, there is always help for you and for your family if they need it. In the UK we have a thing called Childline which children can ring if they need help, I don’t know if you have this in the US but I would think there is something like it. Try something like this. Keep in touch you will always feel better just for talking to somebody. Take care
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

• How do you find yourself?
  

  Just remember sometimes it has to get really dark before you can see the stars.
  
  take care, listen to peoples advice, trust your instinct. It’s obviously what you are doing now, as you have reached out to people and this sounds like your gut instinct telling you that you need to talk. I agree with some of the others get professional help, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. My brother went to Kosovo and had the same feelings you appear to be having. He didn’t want to speak to his family although we are all very close and instead chose to see a specialised counsellor and is much happier now but everybody is different and different things work for different people. And remember you don’t need to tell them everything there are some things in life that you just don’t want to think about let alone talk about, so don’t feel pressured. Divulge what you think will help you. thank you and good luck.
  - written 2 years, 4 months ago

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