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I would be mad as a mad cat too. The trouble is that if you go mad at him then he will just hang up again and that will you feel worse. You need to remain calm and keep control - that way control the conversation. You do need to tell him and yes if you call him and tell him that is fine; if you can get him to talk properly.

How long have you two been going out and have you been having many difficulties recently? Maybe there is other factors?

How long is he away for?

I would suggest that you talk to him when you next see him. I know people can be insensitive at times but if you are in a relationship you need to let him know how he has made you feel. If the roles were reversed, how would he have felt? It may be that he really has no idea what he has done - who knows. But you do need to talk to him and not have an argument - no matter how angry you may be feeling inside.

I think its rude. Have you asked him why?

Thanks for all the replies!
This is really exciting for me as I have never actually done a proper travelling journey before -

I would like to start off in Spain and then travel up into france - then into Austria - down into Italy then Greek Island hopping and then through Greece, and from there not sure!

I am going to see a travel agents on Friday to look at my route and then at the possible hostels about in the countries. I know I will be on my own but I am hoping that other like minded peeps will be about to make friends with.

Any tips on staying in hostels and how much to take?

Hi,

2 years is a long time not to let yourself move on. You will probably always love her as she shared your life with you and I know exactly how you feel.

Everyone has been giving me advice recently and I can only pass onto you what they said and that is that you have to open yourself up to the possibility and it will happen. That does not mean looking for it but instead stop pining for your past.

Maybe try something new - really different and fun - who knows - you may not meet your new love, but maybe it will take your mind off your ex for a bit and the more that happens, the more likely you are to be open to meeting someone new?

good luck
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