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• Mosquitos attacked me a few days ago! posted (5 years, 10 months) ago
  ! Now the bites have turned into bumpy little rashes on my arm and they ITCH! Nothing is making the …

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• (1 vote) this girl is my best friend and ive grown to like her
  

  It sounds like she needs someone like you in her life. Just keep in mind that IF you do hurt her….you’ve lost her forever, even as a friend. You can make a difference in her life and maybe she is trying to reach out to you without being desperate. I will tell you, women always “fish” for things. Maybe the whole “Where will I find a boy to do all that…” is her way of asking you if YOU are the one that can do that for her. Women want a man to want them without having to ask them to. I’m willing to bet she is just waiting for you to make the first move.
  
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago – voted for by calebmitchell09

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• If you once had the heart of the Love of your life, and you lost it because you were being self centered.
  

  00tomo if love is mutual….and he’s self centered….then that’s a contradiction. I’m sure she didn’t expect him to be selfish…LOVE is mutual and if he wasn’t reciprocating likewise…then she had every right to walk away…imagine how it made her feel.
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• If you once had the heart of the Love of your life, and you lost it because you were being self centered.
  

  In my experience, men don’t treat their women with an appropriate level of respect and love. Men typically are self-centered in relationships. Of course, I feel this way, because I’ve never dated a girl. But I know that if a man is more concerned about himself than me I’m not interested. Men are protectors and to women they are larger than life and when he lets her down it’s a shocking blow. Women don’t have the right to be self-centered either, but if she wasn’t being selfish and you were, chances are she’s gonna be over you. When a person gives and gives and gets nothing in return….they wind up empty. I don’t think self-centered people can just turn it off, I think it’s a character trait….just find someone as self-centered so you’re both worrying about yourself instead of each other.
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• didnt think life was supposed to be like this.
  

  *GASP!* Women DO NOT have flaws….you take it back…we’re perfect! lol All bad things start with men…MENopause, MENstration, MENtal ward hahaha I’m kidding, I love my man.
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• didnt think life was supposed to be like this.
  

  Oh and my man doesn’t have to cook or do dishes…but if he could refrain from flirting with everything in a skirt….that would be refreshing!!
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

• didnt think life was supposed to be like this.
  

  There is nothing cynical about the truth :) And let me tell you….I’m sick of optimists…..IF I’M NOT HAPPY YOU CAN’T BE EITHER!! LOL j/k
  - written 5 years, 10 months ago

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