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• I’ve been severely depressed for a long time. posted (2 days, 3 hours) ago
  I’ve been deluding myself into thinking I’m OK for a long time, but in actuality have be…

• My girlfriend killed herself five years ago, and I am still in a cycle of self sabotage and can’t get over this incessant feeling of guilt. posted (2 years, 4 months) ago
  My life is spinning out of control and nobody can help me…

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• (1 vote) Boy Issues…well I have been seeing/dating this guy for about 5 months.
  

  Sounds like you need to give him an ultimatum. Tell him that you like where this is going, but you need to know that it is for real. If he can’t give you that, then I guess I’d recommend moving on.
  
  It’s possible he’s got intimacy issues.
  
  - written 10 months, 2 weeks ago – voted for by pink sparkle

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• Why do You like helping?
  

  [quote littlenick]It gives my life some kind of meaning and helps me forget about my own troubles, bad as they are and big as they are too.[/quote]
  
  I love this site in general because it reminds me that we aren’t all bad. As human beings we all suffer a great deal of pain in our lives, and it’s good to know that there is a place where people still care.
  - written 1 day, 3 hours ago

• My boyfriend (now exboyfriend) broke up with me because
  

  He’s not over you. He obviously cares a great deal about you. The decision ultimately lies with you. You either have to stop hanging out with him altogether, or you need to be there for him 100%.
  
  I know this because I just recently had to stop hanging out with my only friend in this town because I am severely depressed and in love with her. She, however is in a committed relationship.
  
  Do not let guilt be the motivating emotion here however. You need to do what is best for you first.
  - written 1 day, 3 hours ago

• So i got to 3rd base with this guy yesterday, and he wants to see me again this Thursday.
  

  [quote Anonymous]Really? I mean…….
  I have been here for a long while and it looks bleak.
  I feel like crying.[/quote]
  
  Cry your heart out if you have to but don’t give up. I’m at a point in my life where everything looks bleak, the only thing keeping me going is I know that there will be a point in which things aren’t so bad. Just keep an open mind and keep on trucking :)
  - written 1 day, 20 hours ago

• So i got to 3rd base with this guy yesterday, and he wants to see me again this Thursday.
  

  [quote Anonymous]No
  I dont want to go out with him per say.
  I just want to be in a relationship…
  :)
  Big difference[/quote]
  
  It sounds like to me, you know what you want. You should not have to settle for less. You did the right thing, just hang in there and eventually there will come a guy with like minded ideals.
  - written 1 day, 22 hours ago

• I’ve been severely depressed for a long time.
  

  [quote Engleby77]It’s good you told your mum about it, and perhaps you should also tell her about how you’re afraid of falling back into the pattern of deceiving yourself, so that she can give you a reality-check every now and then :/
  
  I never told my parents about my ‘depression’, though I told my brother. He just told me I was ’stupid’ lol. So, you’re very lucky in that sense.[/quote]
  
  Thanks, I believe I shall do that too. Sorry to hear about that, have you been able to get any help for your depression?
  - written 2 days, 2 hours ago

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