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- (2 votes) I’m suddenly terrified of my girlfriend, who I’ve been with for over a year, and who I love (as cliche as it is) more than anything.
Marcos - you’re not really hearing him…..that is cool where you are at, I actually agree— but its not so useful to just tell someone to believe like you when clearly they are in a different place….theres not much gracein that…at least thats what I think…….not to be contrary….but listen to what he said….
- written 5 years, 10 months ago – voted for by OliveOil - (1 vote) I have been seeing a girl I work with for about a week.
Why? Why are you pursuing this? She said she doesnt want a boyfriend - why are you doing this?
If you read posts on this site, you see again and again (both with guys and girls) one pushes, one doesnt want anything….ends not great.
I say wait until you find someone who wants what you want…otherwise, you’ll just end up sadder than you are now. Not that I am a quitter, but dont you want to listen to what she said?
I hear your strategy: keep at her until her mind changes.
I guess…i’m not sure i think thats so wise….she said what she wants..why are you ignoring that?
- written 4 years, 11 months ago – voted for by Sherooo - (1 vote) I just got married a month ago.
i say TALK about it with him. two of you seek counseling. if thats true then you can get out of the marriage and move on, start new, feel better and you wont have wasted too much more.
sorry that sounds so hurtful and also - HAVe to address it so you can fix it or move on.
why kill yourself? if he wont go to counseling or talk, then DO get out. who wants a life with someone like that who you cant talk to?
this is a good thing to know now, up front, not 3 kids later, way deep into it.
you’ll be ok girl - see a minister or counselor and bring him.
- written 4 years, 11 months ago – voted for by salutonmondo - (1 vote) What do you think has brought about the suicidal urges, and desires to self mutilate, that we see as epidemic today?
ps: like he said above - lack of compassion…..to me, that is another way of saying our culture has developed into me, me, me, i want, i think, i feel, I, I I not thinking about others, not in gratitude/grateful for what we DO have (including just being able to walk, see, talk)….and becoming kind of victimy, blaming (parents, whoever etc.) for everything and just sitting in a victim mentality instead of waking up, looking around, (particularly if you look at Darfur or Afghanistan or just others in this country who are struggling…the homeless guy, etc)…we can miss the boat on seeing how many blessings we have, being grateful for that, and helping others who dont have much/the same….and get stuck in that death mode of poor me….its a killer, i know, lived there most my life…
- written 5 years ago – voted for by Silverwings - (1 vote) My ex said that he would still come to my graduation formal if I didn’t find another date.
If you can tell him you still care before, and he does too…thats diff…otherwise wont it be like a dream, cinderella at the ball, until the end…when he drops you at the door and gives an awkward hug or handshake and then you turn into a pumpkin? not to be negative - but i think you’d be better off taking a friend…it would probably make you sadder….believe me i’ve kind of been ther e- and its HORrible to be in front of someone you love when they are casual…..If you can do it and take it for what it is and not be said, go for it….youre more mature than I!!!
- written 5 years ago – voted for by island girl*